While reading this FR keep in mind "abundance mentaility" because honestly this was by far the most important pillar behind my success tonight

Saturday night the week before finals and I've got one thing on my mind - finish my alcohol.

I invite my two good friends over for drinks and, after I finish my wow arenas, we proceed to down some liquid courage. It's important to not go overboard with this shit (alcohol), and I know this better than anyone since asking the name of a girl who actually I went out with before (yes I was pretty drunk and I also have shit eyesight).

We head over to the usual place and I text a female acquaintance of mine to come with. She is reluctant as she is planning on going to a different venue so my friend and I change plans to head over there as well.

We get there and start interacting with the people in line. A freshman was talking about how much it sucks being underage so I join in on the conversation between him and his friends, quickly befriending them.

I was then able to use them as a "home base" on the dance floor; if I approached a set and got rejected hard, I could always go back and dance with them. We meet the female acquaintance and her friend and proceed to dirty dancing.

I take breaks from grinding ( I hate this style of dance but I guess this is what you have to do nowadays ) to interact with ppl on the dancefloor, pulling out some fat dancemoves I stole from youtube videos and everyone loves it. After dancing and ditching her and dancing with her again a couple times, she's really into it; pulling me in to dance. I felt this was a good and very obvious IOI and went in for a smooch. I land the smooch but afterwards she quickly disappears; no worries, I have other people to dance with

Whatever, off to home base. My friend and I take breaks to go to the smoking area every once in a while to cool off. This has been essentially my strategy when at clubs or bar dancefloors - notice a group of people, (maybe, if its lame)mock their style of dance, and whip out some ridiculous dance moves before selecting a girl (or two), holding her shoulders, and telling her you'll be back in a bit; or if they're really into it just grab them and dance. Proceed to dance with other groups you've done this to or just take a break.

After doing this it's incredible easy to approach them, ask them if they're having fun, and dance with them

When leaving the smoke area I notice a very tall asian hb7. I pull my friend and point her out, noting how fucking cute she is. he motions me to go in, and at this point my reputation is on the line. I start walking towards her, no idea what to say.

"hey, you're fucking cute". she fucking grabs me and pulls me in. her being this receptive made it very obvious to me that she's into this shit and down to play. literally 10 seconds after I say that I pull her in for the makeout. No objections and she wants more. cool. after getting such a powerful ioi (grabbing and pulling me in literally 10 seconds after I meet her) I know that she's down to play or just really drunk, probably both, so I know it's my job not to seduce her, but to not fuck this up. I've kissed like twice before but I knew the time was now or never after such powerful ioi.

I don't stray from my strat. I pull her outside and talk to her about stupid shit like majors. whatever. this entire time I have been periodically initiating and reciprocating makeouts, doing my best to stop first everytime. I got a ton of shit tests from her but almost all of them were of the same "format": if I tried to pull away from a makeout or be unimpressed by shit she is telling me, she would sometimes tell me she has the control and start walking away. be unreactive and don't cling. abundance. each time she came back.

Back to dancefloor and same shit. I pull out from a makeout first and she starts walking away. whatever, back to home base, partying with the people I met in line, dancing hard. later she texts me that I should find her at a booth. go to booth, walk her home.

and the rest is pretty embarrassing history. we're all gonna make it brahs

lessons I learned tonight:

  • abundance: everyone gets rejected and it doesnt mean shit, keep smiling and dancing
  • you can pretty much respond to any interaction (not just shit tests) by agreeing and amplifying
  • getting laid is WAYYYYYYYYYYY easier than getting used to approaching girls or learning to interact with them. everything was honestly incredibly natural for me after practicing this shit for so long.
  • I got lucky and had an easy time doing this due to the nature of the situation. This is fact. But this is also because I was prepared after studying and practicing this shit so much and I knew exactly how to not fuck up
  • steal dance moves from youtube and do that shit in your bedroom. the easiest way to approaching groups is by being a confident enough dancer to the point where they can't ignore you
  • adding on to this, don't be there to lure in woman to your dick as if they are fish; be there to dance. I had a huge grin on the entire time and danced my heart out when songs I liked came on.
  • dont get whiskey dick i beg u guys