This will be my first time posting a Field Report, so I'm gonna try to stick to the tips/guidelines, basically explaining 'what I did and why it worked.' I'm trying to remember all the details, but alcohol had been consumed. I've also put my strong points in bold in case you don't have time to read everything.

So the night starts by arriving in the city slightly drunk and seeing a group of people I know half of. In those groups there are 2 HB-7's that I knew were really into me, I'd already kissed one of the HB-7's a while ago, and the other HB-7b has a boyfriend. So I introduce myself to the other half of the group, including a HB-8 girl. We start walking towards the club, and itt just happens that I'm walking with HB-7b and HB-8 on my side. I'm totally in state at this moment and I joke around with HB-7b while asking HB-8 for some input/opinions on the stuff we talk about. HB-7b puts her arm around my neck and I put my arms around the waists of both HB-7b and HB-8. HB-8 immediately puts her arm around my waist too, which I saw as an IOI.

At this point I was not completely sure what had interested HB-8, but my guess is that I was smiling a lot, very confident in my bodylanguage and in dealing with new people, and making HB-7b laugh. I assume she likes me, which is a rule I made for myself: 'Assume she likes you until proven otherwise.'

So here is where things start to get a littly hazy, I'll try my best to give as many details that lead to the kiss close.

We arrive at the club and I wait for everyone to put their coats away. When they're all finished I look HB-8 and the eyes, smile, and then tell everyone to come dance on the dancefloor. I walk up to a spot to dance and everyone joins me dancing. During the dancing I keep strong eye contact with HB-8 and smile a lot. I also made sure to be dancing next to her, sometimes I made it obvious that it was on purpose, other times I tried to hide it. We started dancing together front-to-front and then I saw 2 guys who I had to speak to. So I said I'll brb and I went to socialize with the 2 guys, shaking their hands and joking around. When I came back she immediately started dancing next to me and against me, another IOI.

Now I was fairly certain that she was into me, so here's the alpha male part of the story.

When the other people that were dancing with us walked away to get one of the other people from the group, I took HB-8 by the hand and moved her to a more private space on the dancefloor. I started dancing and quickly grabbed her hand, making her do a spin, and purposely having her end up with her back against me so we started to grind. As the music got to a halt I grabbed her hips and turned her around, making her face me. I went through her hair with my hand, then went in for the kiss, keeping eye contact. But just before our lips touched I pulled out. She pushed me away, I grabbed her hips again and she wanted it so bad she was the one who went in. I was then the first to quit the kissing, which is one of the tips I read here. After some more kissing I asked her for her number, this was halfway through my evening with her and at that point I had no intention to leave.

I proposed to bounce and we went to another club, holding her by the waist and giving her some kisses when she made eyecontact. When walking back outside of that club I just noticed how sexy she walked, so I told her spontaneously 'you know you're really sexy, come here' and she put my hands on her upper body, by her tits.

The rest of the night I showed confidence and generally being Alpha in multiple ways. Some examples:

  • There was another guy in the group that was interested in her, and when he tried to dance with her or make a move I would just go talk to someone else or keep open-bodylanguage and look her in the eyes once while smiling. She always came back immediately.

  • The HB-7b knew I work out and asked me to pull up my shirt, showing what barely looks like a sixpack but does feel like it, which made both girls, HB-7b and HB-8, have their hands all over me. The important part about this one is that I wasn't acting all shy about not wanting to show my belly like the other guys were.

  • I teased her with the kiss-tease a couple of times, and generally teased her into wanting me more and more.

  • I slapped her ass once when my own bum was mentioned, and did that a couple more times when she happened to be dancing next to me etc.

  • When dancing in a more private part towards the end of the night I put my hands under her shirt, touching the skin of her belly/hips.

  • I talked to a lot of people in the club and showed I could talk to people I didn't know at all. Also any mistake I made or if someone acted stupid/like adick, I just brushed it off as a joke.

So at the end of the night she begged me to date her sometime, I told her I'm not looking for anything serious, but that she was so sexy I'd give her a shot.

When reflecting back on the night, I seem to only have gotten her first name. I didn't know where she lived, what her age was, if she had family, what school she goes to or anything. I feel like everything was done with confidence, body language, alpha-male behaviour and humour.

If you have any questions/pointers please let me know, I'd love to answer 'em and I really want to improve my game so I can game confidently with girls I'm really into.

EDIT: One thing I want to add is that, I was most in-state I've ever been this night. I was smiling to whomever I made eye-contact with and the outcome of my actions weren't even on my mind. Feelsgoodman.jpg