So, I forced myself out again at midnight tonight. Again, not really focused on any outcome other than to just go out with friends, and if I see a woman that I want to approach, I will approach, and just overall have a good time. I'm at a point in my life where if I just wanted sex with any human being willing to give it, I could get it. So I don't care so much anymore about adding another # to the list as much as I now care about seeing someone that I would actually like to approach because I would be down to fuck them...

I went out to a local spot where everyone already knows my name. I spent a lot of time in this area building social proof. I spoke to everyone, and made sure to stay at the rooms energy level.

90% of the sets I opened, I did them successfully.

I started off my night, on the dance floor, just enjoying the music... It was nice. I passed value to everyone, including all my homies. When I saw women I found attractive, I made sure to pass some sort of value.

I remember there was actually maybe 3 sets I chickened out on because the girls were so pretty and it would've phased me too much. What a shame, yet then again I know from experience that what would've probably just happened is I'd walk in, do my retarded line or w/e it is I think of saying at the last moment even if it's just Hi, with some flinching in my throat or tone of voice where she would detect instantly that I'm value taking and pissing my pants, and they would finally start ignoring me or w/e cold bitch shield, shit test, or rejection they throw at me... And I always fail here. I kinda just walk away at this point, unable to figure out what went wrong so quickly...

Well, on the bright side of things, I did make a lot of approaches, to a lot of cute girls.

As soon as I'm on the dancefloor, someone, from another venue that I frequent, asked me to be there dance partner. Her boyfriend gave her permission. We get to the dance floor, and we're just having a good time. I brought her and me to a place on the dance floor, where EVERYONE can see us. I did this intentionally to gain as much pre-selection as possible.

I noticed a lot of women watching me. Cha-ching!

One chick came onto the dance floor with us and started dancing with us. The 3 of us were having a good time. Eventually I maneuvered and led the dancing to where me and this new girl were dancing alone. I was trying to escalate here, but something was off... I think she also came with a boyfriend, who I actually met later. So I kept it platonic.

When I got off the dance floor, I immediately started talking to women. It was seamless, fearless, and even natural... I didn't give any shit. When I talked to this one girl, I wasn't even saying anything... In fact, I was saying nothing! I was saying complete bullshit lunacy nonsense! I was saying shit you'd hear on The Animaniacs...

And I was just sorta amusing myself constantly, laughing at all my jokes, and looking back it actually reminded me of a Shroom trip I took on my birthday when I went to AC, and also at the party... I remember having complete Ego Death and when I socialized with people, I was feeling so nutts that I just said and did whatever I thought was funny to me and laughed at it... And I loved every minute of it... And the result was that I became the most attractive person at these parties, and just as I did at the bar tonight... Man, shit's getting real.

As the night rolled on, I wanted to actually find someone to flirt with. I was having a blast having fun, but I was finally ready to strike up some passion in my life.

I'm looking around for someone who qualifies enough to persuade me enough me to leave this awesome bar with them, leave all my friends behind, and go home and fuck them and end the night with them... Sounds like a great ending, except that I have to leave my friends behind and leave the fun scene. An average girl just wont be enough. I want to know that when I take a girl back home... SHE IS THE ONE THAT I WANT TO FUCK!

I notice the bar is starting to die down and I'm being too picky. I approach one girl with my fake english accent, "Hello!"

I didn't overdo it, or say too much... Again, I wasn't really trying to impress her. Rather, I was saying things I liked that were fun for me, that would sorta play of her words...

She responded with, Hello.

I can't remember what I said after this. I believe I made a transition here.

Where I started saying some more words in the accent, just sorta commenting on the scene. She laughs and asks me if the accent is real. I tell her, "No. I just put it on to make cute girls laugh."

She laughs again.

I start off with interview questions. I watched the video posted in the comments of my last post on how to make interview questions work, in addition to the Rapid Escalation with Liam video, and I started to make a lot of what they were talking about, work... http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2odg88/fr_day_21100_bar_game_office_game/

When she answered my interview questions, I caught myself talking too fast, responding too fast. I decided to take it slow. When she answered another question, this time I would just stare, look at her, think for a moment about what she said, and then respond.

My body language on point. I came in with my hand on her lower back, and I was trying to see how long I could let it stay there with her not moving it off. I would even rub her back sometimes.

Then I remembered to make pauses in between my sentences. So I started to do that. I'm not sure how long it lasted for. But it did keep popping back into my memory. I suspect this is going to turn into a habbit as a long as I continue to try doing it.

I try to get her to come dance with me. She declines. I don't back down. I ask her why, and she says she needs to drink more. I let the Dancing bit go immediately. I stay in there and start talking about nothing, just commenting on the moment, reflecting whatever she's doing and blowing it out of proportion as self amusement.

I'm speaking a good energy level. I'm not speaking in high tones as if I'm so excited to meet her, I'm not speaking in low tones as if I'm scared or too grumpy to talk to her. I'm right in the middle, with a little enthusiasm. She's loving it. She finally asks for my name, wow. We exchange names, and shake hands. I hate shaking hands, because there are so many ways of doing it with different people. But this time, I did it quite well... Our hands came together, and I just didn't let go. I didn't firmly hold her hand or squeeze it show my strength. She could've easily taken her hand back at any moment. I just kept holding onto it, and I didn't care... Rather, I enjoyed it.

She finally comments on how long we've shaken hands for. "How long are we shaking hands for?"

I look down, look a bit confused, then make a "who cares" face, and continue talking about whatever I was talking about before.

Then she goes, "People normally don't do this, for this long, like this."

Finally I acknowledge it. Except, I don't just acknowledge it, I agreed, and exploded.

I held her hand up to where I could see it and said.

"You know, I don't know exactly, but there's just something about your hand. I really like your hand, it's really soft and nice."

"Awww! Thank you! So are yours!"

She's got a big smile on right now.

She goes, "You're still holding my hand."

I start playing with her hand now.

"Yea... I can just like, play with it."

She continues to smile.

I ask her, "Have you ever had your palm read?"

"No. But that's a pick up line."

"You're right it is. It works on all the ladies. But I'm still going to do it, cause it's fun."

She laughs and continues to smile, letting me read her hand.

"Oh, Yes! I see a bright future! Lots of money, and fame. I see lots of good health."

I position myself closer as I said that, almost to imply that she is very beautiful.

"I see in that there is a man... A very handsome man, standing in front of you, who would like to kiss your hand."

And then I went to kiss her hand. She starts blushing.

"Awww! Thank you! Oh man, this is bad."

"Oh what? Can't take the heat baby?"

At this point I started sorta quickly brushing some hair out of her face to reveal more of her face... It felt like kino escalation.

At some point soon, we started talking about sex. She guessed that I was a Freak, to which I admitted. Then I said, Okay, I'm going to tell you the dirtiest thing I've ever done!"

She puts her chin on her hand, mouth gaping open, ready to listen.

"I can't wait! Tell me!"

"One time, I spit in a girls mouth, and then I fucked her mouth!"

She bursts into laughter. "Wow."

"And then another time, I spit in her mouth, she spit it back in mine, and then I spit it all on my dick as I was fucking her."

She laughs even harder now. When I am saying these filthy stories, by now I have positioned myself very close to her. I didn't blurt these outloud.

She starts complimenting me, telling me how fucking sexy it is what I like to do.

I then tell her I find her very sexy. She replies telling me she finds me the same.

Then I say, "Wow. Well then there's no reason why I shouldn't kiss you."

"No there is. You forgot to ask 1 very important question."

"What question?"

"Do you have a boyfriend."

I looked at her with skepticsm, because I've heard this before many many times.

"Do you have a boyfriend?"

"Yes."

I felt a bit defeated here, but I didn't back down yet.

I turned my frown, upside down.

"Well that's okay. I have a girlfriend."

"Oh really!?"

"Yes. So it really doesn't matter."

"We should just say, fuck it, Lets get it on!"

"Yea! Just fuck it! Let's do it baby!"

I grab her head, and pull us into a kiss. But she starts pulling away.

"No, no, no, no, no."

I hold on for just a little longer, just to make sure she's not frontin. Finally I stop, and say,

"Do you really have a boyfriend?"

"Yes. Do you really have a girlfriend?"

"No. But if you were single baby, I would so have my way with you. I would fuck you so hard, I would shove my dick into your mouth and fuck your cheek and spit all over you."

While I said that last one, she was laughing, and giggling the entire time.

"Wow, that sounds like it would be amazing."

"It would be Epic! It would be like the Gladiator Movie, in your mouth! Epic!"

"You make it sound so persuasive. It's so tempting!"

"How long have you been with this guy?"

"3 Months."

"3 months!? Are you... Oh my god. You're 22, and in a relationship of 3 months, and you meet a guy whose hot and sexy and yada yada yada we know already, and he finds you to be really sexy too, and you know he'll give you the best sex ever, and you're turning it all down for a 3 month relationship."

She looked kinda sad here.

"Yea... He's gonna be here any minute."

I stay and chat for another minute or so and then bounce when he finally arrived. I didn't get her number or anything...

I continue mingling.

The last set I did with my buddy, was 2 really hot girls that i may have been too pussy to approach. HB10s.

I came in with the typical "Hello", hand on shoulder, trying to do low energy game.

The one I opened, was acting kinda shy and not social. Her friend on the other hand was more receptive of us. I just quit early on this one, because the bar was already closing.

Things I Did Well

  • Built Social Proof

  • Established Pre-selection

  • Approached immediately

  • Self Amused myself from the moment I walked into the bar

  • Started Kino on everyone I was talking to

  • Spoke clear enough to where new people I met seemed to understand every word and never once commented on my fast talking or to repeat myself.

  • Was 100% honest with myself and with women about myself

  • Was Playful

  • I had fun

  • I listened more to Women

  • I took pauses more often before responding, and purposely tried putting pauses in between my phrases. Must do that 100X more.

  • I didn't back down as easily this time

  • I opened most groups of people

  • Danced with some girls

  • Almost got a girl to have kinky ass fucking sex with me, cheating on her 3-month boyfriend.

  • Got myself out of interview mindset by focusing on what she's saying, listening, thinking about what she's saying, and then finally saying whatever I want or comes to mind... It could even be something off topic, as long as I at least acknowledge what she says.

Things I Did Poorly

  • Spoke faster than I wanted to

  • Didn't make as many pauses as I wanted to

  • Didn't Close

  • Didn't get numbers

  • Still got phased by some hot girls by just their beauty

Things I want to improve on

  • Speaking Slower

  • Escalating

  • Closing

  • Isolating

  • Not being afraid of talking to hot girls, no matter how hot they are.