Just a couple hours ago I attempted my very first cold approach. I was walking around campus with a friend who is light-years ahead of me in game. He spotted a girl for me to approach, so I did.

Me: Hi

Her: Hello

Me: What's you name?

Her: I'm HB

Me: This is kinda random, but I saw you walking and thought you were cute so I had to say Hi.

Her: Oh..

She was pretty surprised and maybe a bit flattered. She kinda looked down and smirked but didn’t object to it, so I pressed on and created conversation. At this point I began asking her a bunch of questions like where she’s from, which housing community she lives in on campus, and much more. She asked me if I went to school here and what year I am (took this as an IOI), I told her and she was surprised that I was a few years ahead. She mentioned that every guy that talks to her is a lot older like me (don’t know what to make of this). I tried to tease her by saying she looks very mature ..but she took it as a complement.

Here’s where it got interesting.

After talking for around 10 minutes ...I asked her for her phone number. (In hindsight I should have tried to set up a day 2 and then asked for number for logistics purposes). She hesitated and said “I’m not sure ..I just met you”. I then asked for her Facebook instead which she agreed to. She pulls out her own phone , opens up her facebook, and I send myself a request from her profile.

At the end I tried to be clever, by saying “hope I’m not a stranger anymore” basically trying to reference the fact that she was uncomfortable with handing over the number. She said something along the lines of “well that’s not my fault” (in a playful way).

I'm very happy with the approach in general. It went very smoothly and she was very responsive to what I was saying. She seemed invested in the conversation and possibly me as well. If I had more experience under my belt, I could have taken this interaction much further.

So now I’m sitting here wondering what I could have done better and what to do about a day 2. I definitely didn’t have her qualify to me at all. I’m sure I qualified myself too much to her. No kino at all either :( ..Also age could be a factor, she might be a freshman and I'm almost done with school ..it doesn't bother me much though

Haven’t even accepted her FB request yet. Wondering how to go about contacting for day 2.

All help and thoughts are greatly appreciated.