[FR] First FR ever, started wussing out last night. Need advice

emooz · 2010-12-15T20:36:05+00:00

I would call her like at 1'o clock and Cheerfully yell: "wake up!" or something like that. After this you can flirt, tease and neg very easy: "oh you REALLY thought that I would be wake for you at 8?" etc.

philosarapter · 2010-12-15T20:46:59+00:00

Relax. Take a deep breath.

You got her number, after she was all over you. Instead of beating yourself up about what you didnt do, take a moment now and allow yourself to feel good about what you did do. You did have a hot girl all over you and give you her number.

Now as for the next step, talk with her a little bit through the week and schedeule a time where just two you can "hang out and grab a drink." She doesnt actually expect you to give her a wakeup call. She's just being compliant because girls will make up any excuse to allow the guy they are into to talk to them. For you it was a good excuse to get her number.

Deep breaths man. Make time to hang out with her this week. Be relaxed, cool and fun. You got this.

Mouthpiece · 2010-12-15T18:45:10+00:00

Stop being afraid. It means you're too attached to your outcome with this girl. If you have an attitude of abundance, meaning that you know you could pick up girls like this any time you want—or at least, most of the time—then you'll stop worrying about looking needy and clingy, and you won't look needy or clingy.

alphaasfuck · 2010-12-15T15:50:43+00:00

Whoops. Don't do that again. Honestly you sort of backed yourself into a corner. I wouldn't call unless she indicated that she wanted to see you in the morning or that she has problems waking up. If you do call, make sure you don't stay on too long, have something cool to do. Don't call her and 'talk to her while she wakes up.' Call her later in the day. Brush it off. But honestly dude, you should figure this sort of shit out for yourself, not be asking us.

katie_the_foxy_lady · 2010-12-15T16:10:45+00:00

you could text her good morning! and then when she texts you back good morning, say just makin sure you were up :P because then she'll know that you remembered and you are also keeping it light, and then the ball is in her court whether to text you back or anything

FacelessTwink · 2010-12-15T18:25:27+00:00

This made me laugh, in a good way. I've never read about a wakeup call number close! I agree with the poster who suggested a text to let her know you didn't forget.

Title	[FR] First FR ever, started wussing out last night. Need advice
Author	TRT_PUA
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	December 15, 2010 3:31 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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