I've been talking to this girl a little while, probably a HB9, but I had recently read the game and decided to change my approach (generally to women) and this was our first 'date' since. I'm a pretty good looking guy and in the past I thought this would do, I've been successful with girls, but it's become clear to me that personality and game are crucial.

Saturday night, she invited me over saying her roommate was going to be out. The past two nights she had been desperately trying to get me to come over but I decided to do other things and hopefully let the attraction build. I get there and we start drinking, her roommate actually decided to stay in and two more male friends came over. The four of us drank and talked, they were all four or five years older than me, graduate students, but I still worked on winning over the other three even though it was the first time we had met. I was fairly successful in keeping the conversation going and not giving too much attention HB9's way.

I was very cognizant of eye contact and the seduction triangle as well as some kino and tried to keep these going throughout the night. At a certain point her roommate went to bed and the guys left and it was just the two of us sitting in the kitchen. Kino had escalated and I decided to use the cube, which I simply said was something about which I had learned in a psych seminar so it wouldn't seem out of place. Cube worked really well and she was all over the place with IOI's. One little curveball was when she reversed the cube on me, and asked me the same questions. I was caught off guard but decided to use it and show some vulnerability here. Is this appropriate? I've read conflicting things on vulnerability.

At this point I suggested we switch up the music and light some candles, and she was very receptive. Listened to some R&B for awhile and eventually after some intense eye contact, she grabbed me and started making out. Good signs. Did this for a little while, but it was getting late so I suggested blowing out the candles. At first she expressed worry over my getting home but then casually broached the subject of a sleepover. I agreed but fear I might have been losing a little bit of my alpha here.

So we go into her room, get the bed ready and start making out and I unhook her bra. I use the biting technique a bit on her neck to heighten the mood and it worked well. After probably fifteen minutes I began to slowly move down south but after two gradual tries was given a negative reaction and, the second time, a line about her morals (she is pretty religious, but the way she acts, I didn’t think it would translate to her sex life). In my past experiences with girls I tried to be the nice guy and say, oh sure, that's okay and just be content with making out. Here I decided it was time to stop that bullshit, time to use the freeze out. I sat on the bed and said I didn't want to compromise her morals and that I think I'd be best off sleeping in my own bed tonight. Walked home early in the morning.

TL;DR – Think I did most things well, was asked to sleep over but ultimately blocked from an F-close by her ‘morals.’ Decided to use the freeze out and not sure where to go from there.

First post, so anywhere I could have improved? How do you feel the freeze out execution was?