I didn't get intimate with this woman, I didn't get her phone number, I didn't actually even asked her out, but what I did is overcome my anxiety so I want to share some simple stuff with you guys.

I was travelling by bus today from my hometown to a town I study in and when I approached my seat there was some cute girl sitting there. I've said: "Hello, it seems I'm sitting next to you", she smiled and greeted me and returned to her book. Thoughts of opening her ran through my head but I did nothing, I simply took out my book and started reading, but I kept getting interrupted with thoughts how I should start talking to her. The trip takes three and a half hours and I was alternating between reading and thinking about mentioned stuff and, of course, about other stuff, for one and a half hours until the break. I thought I should go to the bathroom and when I return I should open her. I did go to the bathroom but not the latter. After another hour I thought it is too late now, it would be awkward to talk to her now. But I've realized I'm doing this blame game all the time and I should open her and see if I would be right; that would be fun because seduction is fun. So I stopped fearing my emotion of excitement which occurs right before you open the girl, I started to enjoy how fun it was to feel it for a change. I grabbed my jacket, pulled out some bubble gums, took one and offered her one. She smiled and shook her head. I've said something like "What brings you to the town X right before New's Year." We started talking and we had a pleasant conversation where we both laughed and I could see she was genuinely interested and amused with what I had to say. In that conversation she mentioned she has a boyfriend who greeted her on arrival and she lives in the same student dorm as me. I will probably see her sometime and who knows, maybe we get to be friends and she introduces me to one of her hot friends :)

My point was, it's never too late, stop blaming everything and enjoy the process of seduction because learning is fun.