DICLAIMER: I am writing this for myself so that I can reread and see where I went wrong and how I can improve.
Went of a blind date that I thought went well. Conversation never seemed forced and flowed well. This continued for over 2 hours. What I did well Allowed myself to be myself and remained relaxed and calm.
What I could improve on Talking slow and not always being so rushed to talk. Not forcing conversation.
I wanted to leave on a high note, so I said I had to do some stuff but that we should meet up later that night for a movie. She agreed but only to say "we should do movie night another night" via text later. Uh oh. I respond with lets grab coffee in the morning before I leave town for the week. She agreed. On the way to the coffee shop she cancelled saying she was still in bed via text. Dissapointed I left town.
What I did well Being able to move on
Where I could improve I think that there was a chance at one point with this girl. Maybe to go to another venue from our original date rather than try to meet up later that night.
Fast forward to today and she texted me an inside joke from our 1st date, however I text back without a response. Frusturating but this girl now seems to have chalked me up to a friend at best. I failed to create enough attraction so that she wouldnt flake in the future. Creating said attraction would have allowed at least one of the follow ups to be successful.
What does /r/seduction think?
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