I knew about seddit for a while, only 17 so no nightgame just yet (until I turn 18), but I went out on tuesday and today for the first time with the intention of game. I met someone from my local lair at the mall, and we walked around for a while.
My opener to use was: "Excuse me, I just saw you walking by and I thought you were really cute. (Introduce)" The first 3 I approached were flat out rejections - I approached them all in the same way, walked up behind until I was side by side then said opener with a slight smile:
1) She just replied "sorry I have a boyfriend and walked off".
2) As I said opener, just gave me a look like wtf are you doing.
3) Just got ignored, walked off.
Today, I met up with some more PUA's (they were like 22) with the intention of more game. My opener was: "Excuse me, do you know how I can get to the cinema?" I found that pretty much every time the girl would stop to explain to me. Halfway through explaining I would say "Actually, I just thought you were really cute and had to say hi".
4) Opened 2 Girl set, but got nervous when one of their boyfriends showed up so I just ejected.
5) Said opener, she smiled as I introduced myself, shook hands but she said "I got to go back to work", I said "Where do you work", she replied "Superdry". I just said "cya later" and ejected as she kept walking. One of the guys (who had been doing game for a year) said "you need to persist more, go in front of her and stop her".
Things were getting slow after a while so me and one of the guys decided to do that Go game, where you point at a girl and tell them to go talk to her or you do like 5 pushups right there. That worked pretty well to try and get over AA.
6)Pretty much same with this girl too, she also worked at a shop so I ejected when she said "I have to go".
Also I was mainly just approaching girls on their own and sometimes you don't see one for ages, there are so many attractive girls but they are all in groups which I have no idea how to open, it's a bit more intimidating since there are 2+ of them. I think next time I'll go city centre where there should be more girls on their own.
I've learnt that I need to be more persistent and not eject early (I think in those cases I could have pushed it if I didn't eject and kept talking).
Not a very exciting FR, but at least its a step forward. thanks for reading, any advice welcome
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