Friday night, I sent a HB7 I've been talking to for about 6 months on a off a few flirty texts seeing what she was up to. We've almost hooked up a few times in the last month or so, and one of my friends told me that she said "I'd go on a date with him (me) if he actually asked me." In the last two weeks or so I've been more and more direct with my intentions and seen nothing but positive reactions from her. Around 11 a few of my close friends and I stopped by her pregame, she came over immediately to give me a hug and we had some light kino. I was joking around with her and had her and her friends laughing for pretty much the entire 45 minutes I was over at her apartment.

She ends up going to a different party than the one me and my friends went to, and I'm having a great time. It's a friend's birthday and I'm talking with everyone, dancing with random girls and drinking probably more than I should have. About hour and a half later I check my phone and see a missed call from HB7. We then have the following text conversation: HB7: I'm lonely. :( Me:Where are you? HB7: In my bed Me: I'll be over in 10 (after this I get my friend who isn't drinking to take me over to her place)

When I got there I went in her room, laid down on her bed, did a quick triangle gaze and kissed her within about 20 seconds. Heavy makeout session and finger blasting ensued, but when I went to put on a condom she gave me some LMR about all people want from her is sex and how she didn't want me to think she was a slut, and she rolled over. Admittedly, I'm very sexually inexperienced and there were quite a few awkward moments when I was escalating from the makeout. I made a major AFC move here and instead of freezing her out just kind of spooned and kissed her neck a bit more and talked about personal stuff with her a lot more than I would have liked. I'm worried that this may have made me seem needy or clingy. She told me she'd rather I leave before the morning "this time, but you can sleep over next time" since she didn't want to get chewed out by her roommates. After she went to sleep I got dressed and walked out of her bedroom. Unfortunately, one of her roommates just got back at 2AM and saw me leaving and she asked about me hooking up with her roommate. She told me that "it's common knowledge in this apartment you like her".

The next day I sent her a text message saying something along the lines of of "I hope your roommates didn't give you any trouble for last night." and she responded with "I lied to them. I'm sorry to have led you on, I was drunk and it was really mean of me. I like talking and hanging out but I don't really want more than that." While I wouldn't mind a relationship with this girl I'm not looking for anything serious, so how could I communicate this?

So what's the deal here? Was it just the awkward almost sex and now she's lost attraction? Am I now stuck in a LJBF zone because she thought I was clingy? I'm kind of confused as to what just happened and where to go from here.

TL;DR; Invited over to girl's apartment. We almost smanged. Now it seems that she has lost all interest in me.