Frat Game for a complete beginner

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-09-09T23:04:39+00:00

Sex happens by inviting women to feel your sexual desire without pressuring them to recriprocate. And it first requires you to stop filtering yourself, to stop playing it safe, to stop trying to be "nice" and stop trying to prioritize making women feel comfortable over expressing your honest truth no matter the consequences.

Your job when you approach is to express what you feel yourself for real in an emotionally-driven way, not to try to get sex or a relationship or reciprocation, or anything, bur rather to invite her to feel what you are feeling so that she submerges herself into the emotion and you both just allow each other to sit with the emotion.

And what is the emotion that you express? The way she makes you feel in terms of lighthearted sexual desire (not of love). The emotional effect her body, her behaviour, her mannerisms, has on you. That's what flirting is. Tell her the things she makes you feel in terms of attraction and sexual desire

"The way you are trying so hard not to kiss her right now", "the way you lose concentration when she smiles cute like that, the way your heart rate increases when she does "that" particular thing", "the way her gaze kinda hypnotizes you", "the way her touch hits you like a wave", "the way her mannersims warm up your heart", "the way you feel so drawn to her and can't help it", "the way your mind just short-circuit when you saw her wearing that dress", the way you forgot what you were planning on doing today when you saw how cute she looked", "the way she just took your breath away", "the way you can't help but imagine how you'd like to pin her against the wall and make her yours",...

This is how you flirt, not by telling them compliments or descriptions of what good qualities she has, but by expressing the emotional effect her attributes or actions have on you instead.

It's something that you say without expecting anything in return, so you should not expect her to tell you thank you, or i feel the same way, or i like you too or anything, it's simply you telling her "i just tell you because it's just how i feel and only want it to share it". And this behaviour requires you to stop caring about getting one particular specific girl and instead just go for many HOT girls, and aim to make them feel your desire without attaching yourself to any outcome. In other words, let women who don't feel your vibe go.

Now, she could say whatever she wants like: "we barely know each other", "you are so direct or too foward", "i have a boyfriend", "it's weird that you express yourself like this"... Whatever, that's all her social conditioning and logical side speaking. If she says things like that, you don't say sorry, or take it back, or go defensive, or anything, you simply double down by saying "i hear you, i don't want anything, it's just how i feel, and i'm just sharing it because i can't resits you right now, you make it so damn hard, like a magenet that i can't help but feel drawn to".

See what you do with this type of emotionally driven expression? You are not convicing her, you are not asking for something, you are just expressing how you feel interanlly because that should be your only focus. Express and express what most guys usually hide.

And in the contet of sex, it's pretty much the same thing. You feel like having sex? you communicate it like i descriebd above,... You don't say "i would like to have sex with you" because that's rational request, which doesn't invite her to feel but to analyse you. You express the sexual desire that she makes you feel without expecting clarity from her or validation or to give it to you in that moment. You simply express that something happens in your body that lights it up and you are simply sharing it with her.

This is the secret. Literally. Express feelings without demanding anything in return for sharing your feelings. But if you express feelings expecting her to give you something, then that's pressure and it won't work. So be careful in how you express it to not make it sound transactional or demanding or like a covert request.

Amazing-Weakness1246 · 2025-09-10T00:49:07+00:00

If you’re really in a Frat the 3:1 women to ratio at the parties are ridiculous it’s gonna get to a point where you’re the one getting chose you could be a mute and get laid

epimpstyle · 2025-09-09T23:54:48+00:00

You said, "too much information and I won’t remember" and I say the same, there is too much information and you won't remember.

Matter_Still · 2025-09-10T00:15:02+00:00

Is there any aspect of human existence that doesn't require its own subset of "game"?

Is there "church game", "ICU game", "escalator game", and "cemetery game"?

When did this start? When did approaching a girl/woman in the gate area of an airline terminal become different and require different tactics than approaching one in a dentist's office?

DreamShort3109 · 2025-09-10T00:33:33+00:00

Isn’t a frat party a “get so drunk I don’t care” thing? Don’t let your thoughts get to you and just go. If a girl won’t talk to you, then don’t give a [%$=:/!#].

liftingnstuff · 2025-09-10T01:03:20+00:00

Ok the basics are

opener. Say something that gets you a conversation. There is nuance and different styles but you asked for the absolute basics.

Display intent. Say things that make it clear that you are interested in the woman.

Create/build attraction

Build comfort

All the while you need to be escalating at the appropriate time and pace. Escalate physically, verbally, or logistically.

Multi_Trillionaire · 2025-09-10T02:22:25+00:00

If you want one thing that is memorable:

https://youtu.be/Ope1tNwRNO4?si=kNbYM-Fuu6hFgvOS

This is what a low key flirty vibe should look like.

If you want to be more playful and higher energy, use JasonTheWeen's smile while making flirty remarks, innuendos and double entendres.

Zach Justice is another person to watch, especially the Dropouts Podcast.

Family Friendly is a good reference too, in particular, watch how Makane interacts with girls (when he's not being overly performative for the camera).

Most pickup advice out there doesn't give you any real context. You won't understand what half the terms even mean.

Learn the two easiest to remember openers (casual delivery, always with a slight JasonTheWeen smile):

The opinion opener - "Hey I need a female opinion on something..."
The straightforward opener - "Hiya. I thought you were cute and figured I'd come and say hi."

Then you pivot to some random conversation topic:

"What's that you're drinking right now?" "How do you guys know each other?" (If she's with a friend) "You seem like you've known each other since middle school."

Don't ask too many questions, make statements and guesses and observations instead and try to intentionally guess wrong so she feels the need to correct you.

Conversation topics should be opinion or preference based stuff, not information or fact exchange.

What classes do you take? - meh

Marvel or DC fan? - good

You go to the gym? - boring

Future career - meh (depending on how passionate she is)

You look like you do some kind of sport - better

What's a childhood dream you've always had - good

Who was your first kiss and what was the experience like - great

Most awkward moment in your life - good

Travel places you want to go - great

Cats v dogs - always a classic

Holiday locations she's been to and her experience - fantastic

Secret she's never told anyone - perfect

Her type of guy - great if you pick up hints that she is interested in you

...

Tell fun stories, and tease her for whatever you can tease her on (but don't be judgemental) - this requires practice and multiple failed attempts to know what is within social conventions and social expectations, so whenever she does something that's not proper or not aligned with normal social conventions or expectations, you can call her out.

At the end of the day, you have to be ok with telling a girl you like her (for her personality and because she's fun, cute and have great energy), straight to her face, with a "JasonTheWeen smile", and accept that you most likely will get rejected most of the time.

When you do get rejected, NEVER act bitter or insult the girl, even if she rejected you harshly or disrespectfully - that'll just make you look insecure. Instead just calmly say "Oh well, that's too bad I guess." and move on.

It's important not to tie rejection to your self worth, but instead, take it to mean that you're just not her type.

Also, don't always trust what a girl says, watch how she behaves and her actions.

AlastairXXL · 2025-09-10T09:14:23+00:00

What are you studying and what career do you want are good openers

Title	Frat Game for a complete beginner
Author	Independent-Virus146
Upvotes	9
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Date	September 9, 2025 11:01 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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