Getting laid

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-07-15T17:35:21+00:00

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Mission-Young-5568 · 2024-07-15T04:57:50+00:00

Be funny, be confident, be likeable, be attractive. If you aren’t those things, work on them and get better at them. There’s really no way around the necessity of women being attracted to you. Attraction can be attained in many ways, but the quickest and most effective is being physically attractive.

Proof-Elk7455 · 2024-07-15T05:02:50+00:00

One of the biggest mistakes I made when I was younger was being too nice, and allowing myself to be in the friend zone. Once you're in the friend zone my friend, you're stuck there. So you need to be direct and confident in your dealings with women. Let them know what you would like up front. Don't ask them all the time insecure questions like, are you cool? Is everything okay? Is something wrong? Is it something I did? It's hardwired in women's brains to look for a competent, confident, capable male. Why? Because back when we were in caves, women weren't concerned about women's rights, they were concerned about how they were going to eat and how they were going to keep from getting gangr@ped. Consent was not a big priority on the Neanderthals mind. How do you keep three gumps from doing dirty things to you? You find a guy that'll put those three gumps in their place. Learn to compliment without being cheesy about it. Don't use lines. That's bush league. Example of being confident and smooth in complimenting a woman: You're out of dinner. She's sitting across the table from you. You're talking about whatever chit chat you're talking about, and you just kind of stop mid-sentence and sit there and have a content smile on your face like there's nowhere else you'd rather be. And just sit there and smile and look at her until she finally get self-conscious and says "what". Just keep your self-contented smile on your face and tell her, "you know, sometimes I forget just how beautiful your eyes are, and then light hits them just right and it amazes me all over again. I'm sorry. That probably sounds cheesy. Your eyes is really amazed me." And then go back to eating like you never said anything at all. If you only take one thing away from this let it be this: confidence, confidence, confidence. If you don't believe in you and your ability, why the f*** should she. Real talk. Never make her walk on the street side of the sidewalk. If a car comes off the road, it better hit you first. It's your job to protect her. Regardless of what some modern women say about things like that, any woman that you would want as a wife, wants you to protect her. Expects you to protect her. Just make sure you're getting what you expect out of a woman too. Don't get played by one of these modern chicks that just wants to keep you as a pet simp. Simps are lame. Learn female anatomy. Learn where the g-spot is. What it feels like. Spoiler alert, it's a third of the way up the vaginal canal on the front wall it's kind of a spongy area. But seriously, learn the female anatomy. Learn the erogenous zones. If you don't know what the erogenous zones are, you're welcome I just helped you out exponentially. Learn to give a good back rub. Foot rub. A good back rub isn't 2 minutes of back rub and I try to put in your ass. Good back rub starts above her ears and all the way down to the toes and then back up again. Before I got good about just being completely direct about sex, back rubs got me laid more than anything else. It passes the touch barrier, and if she's letting you rub her back it's pretty good barometer that even if she doesn't like you, she trusts you enough not to r@pe her, which is good, because there are a lot of creepy dudes out there. Also, don't be a creepy dude. If you've texted a chick twice and she has not text you back, your third text should start with, "haven't heard back from you in a while, and if I Don't hear back from you after this text, I'll just assume you don't want to talk and leave it at that. I'm not trying to be rude, but I'm also not trying to be that guy that text you 500 times even though you don't want me to text you anymore, lol so anyway (say whatever you were going to say.) And if she doesn't text you back, she's just not that into you. Don't try to force the issue. That's creepy. If you cum too quick, this is not the end of the world if you don't make it the end of the world. You just tell her how hot she is, how absolutely f****** turned on she gets you, reassure her that round two is going to be much more focused on her and tell her "and until then", and eat her p**** like a retard on bath salt until your dick gets hard again, and then smash it like a 17-year-old on three viagra's and 6 adderalls. Did I mention confidence? And, if you are stuck in the friend zone with the one that's hot that want to bang, The. Absolute. Worst. Thing you can do is try to change your mind. Her mind changes it will be her mind's own doing and not yours. Turner from your biggest target to your best asset. She is now your wingman. She will help you get laid more than rohypnol, lol. And since you don't have to worry about her looking at you in that way, ask her questions. I would my hair look like this? What can I do to spice up my wardrobe some? Ask her some of the smoothest s*** guys ever pulled on her. Ask her some of the creepiest s*** guys have ever pulled on her. And don't be a douchebag to her boyfriend. If she has to choose between you and the guy that's f****** her like a pornstar, he's probably not the one that's going. Especially if he's a good guy. So just accept that your friend is dating a good guy, make it very clear that you're not a threat and you don't intend to become a threat. And then you've got two wing men. And there are women that I was in the friend zone with for years, decade plus. I went out in the wild. Did some things. Seen some stuff. And when they hadn't seen me and five, six years, and saw the Man that I'd become, as opposed to the boy that they knew, I finally hit it, lol. But I always waited for a signal from them. Because once again, when a woman makes it clear that she doesn't want to sleep with you, you just make it clear that it's her loss anyway you were trying to help her out. .

Particular-Tax4511 · 2024-07-15T06:12:26+00:00

Everyone is giving good advice, if you’re getting ghosted by girls you like, it could be either you’re not making the first moves, or you’re appearing too eager to smash and coming off as needy

Due-Ear4310 · 2024-07-15T05:18:32+00:00

Become a pickup artist. The name has a bad rep, but at its core, the stuff that pua’s teach is real and it works. It’s completely changed my sex and dating life within 6 months of me learning it. I have friends who went from being a virgin to getting laid 30+ times by learning from pua and applying it. My advice to you; fuck what society says. Keep an open mind (seriously). Read The Game by Neil Strauss, then check out Ultimate Man Project and Austen Summers

GymBroTRT · 2024-07-15T10:11:59+00:00

Easy. Stop caring about getting laid.

Dandys3107 · 2024-07-15T07:45:09+00:00

Improve yourself to become sexually attractive male, read and test seduction materials to forge proper mindset and technique. Take it step by step, follow girl's choices and actions not her words, take initiative to gradually try to get more and more intimate physically and mentally with a girl.

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-07-15T10:14:13+00:00

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Proof-Elk7455 · 2024-07-15T05:03:00+00:00

Have a good sense of humor. Have a self-deprecating sense of humor. Nothing worse than somebody that takes themself too seriously. Be able to pack a joke about yourself. Be able to take a joke about yourself from another guy. Real gangster ass n***** don't flex nuts cuz real gangster ass n***** know they got em. Don't try to be Billy badass if you're not. Now, don't get that confused. If a man encroaches on your woman and you and y'all's space, Make it clear that you're willing to go if necessary, and if necessary, throw the first one. And make it a cheap shot right to the throat. Throat punch ends fight. Every time. If it's clear that this isn't going to de-escalate you just hold your hands up and open at shoulder level looking very disarming and walk up looking very sincere saying "hey man I don't want to...(Throat punch) Alright, hon, let's roll before the cops come". And leave. Don't be a sloppy drunk on a date. Women absolutely hate getting hit on by a sloppy drunk. And sloppy drunks are horrible at taking no for an answer. Which, once again, it's creepy. Find your own style. Be your old man. If you like wearing a bow tie, and you like the way you look in a bow tie then you f****** rock a bow tie bro. But don't ask her if the bow tie is okay. Because you rock a f****** bow tie and that's your style bro. Whatever you stand for. Stand for it. And stand on it if you have to. Once again, I don't know if I've mentioned, but confidence. I've got a buddy that looks like a complete total retard when he's dancing, but I'll tell you what I've seen that man dance with more women than anybody else I've ever seen dance. Because he gets out there. And he's having a great time. And you can tell he's having a great time. And who doesn't want to hang out with somebody that's having a great time? You don't have to be a great dancer, you just have to be up for the challenge. Tell her. I don't know how to dance, but I'll f****** give it a shot. And go out there and give it a shot. Move to the music. If she's laughing and having a good time and makes fun of you, enjoy it. She's laughing and having a good time. she's making fun of you because you're her date and people have fun on their dates by making fun of one another sometimes. Don't get f****** butthurt. Tell her you haven't even seen my best moves yet. And then start busting out the q-tip, and the lawn mower, and the sprinkler and then tell her hold on this one's my signature and do the fridge. The fridge is where you walk all sexy up to the fridge. Open the top door look around nothing in there close it open the bottom door look around open the drawer kick the door shut boom. You'll get a laugh. If you can make a woman laugh. You're in there like swimwear. Second to confidence is a good sense of humor. Women hate to cry. But they love to laugh. And if she doesn't want to laugh, ditch that b**** bro. It wants to hang around with a serious chick that has no sense of humor? Hope this has been helpful. It's worked for me. A lot of the things I tell you to not do, I know from personal experience. Like not getting sloppy drunk. I used to be a sloppy drunk. And I did still sleep with the considerable amount of women, and most of them when I woke up in the morning I did regret having slept with. You want to get quality women? Be a quality man. You want to date a chick that's a lawyer, that has her s*** together, that owns our own house? Best believe she's not dating some dude that's borrowing his buddy's car after his shift at the 7-Eleven. College is a joke anymore. Get into one of the skilled trades. Get damn good at it. And start your own business. Nothing sexier to a woman than a man who's got his s*** together and his own business. Remember. Caveman days. They're hardwired to want food, shelter, and stability. And if she's a woman worthy of you you should be happy to give that to her. And the. Biggest. piece of advice. You are going to have heartbreak in your life. You are going to break up with women. They are going to break up with you. Make it as civil as you can. Just because the two of you don't work as a couple doesn't mean you have to hate each other. It took me a long time to learn that. Don't take a long time to learn that. Don't threaten suicide. Don't tell her you're going to kill yourself if she doesn't come back to you. If there was a list of things that make women's vaginas dry up like the Sahara that would probably be at the top of it. If you have any questions or just want to get to know the f*** wrote this post, and how the f*** he has any idea about any of this, feel free to reach out man. Ever need any advice, I'm here. I'm 43 now. Married. Two daughters. Three stepdaughters. And my wife lets me bring other women home. I know a little something about women. And psychology. And knowing basic human psychology is a game changer as well. I wish you many years of happy hunting. And hopefully even more years as a happily married man with beautiful children. Because in the end. I've slept with a lot of women. And three of them matter. Have fun man Play the field. Date. Don't just settle down with the first chick you date. There's an infinitesimal chance that she's the one. You're going to find things that you like in women, and things that you don't like in women. You're going to find that women like things in you, and they might not like other things about you. Don't ever change for a woman unless she's worthy of you changing, and it's a change that you think is a change for the better. Once again. Find your own f****** style and f****** rock it. Did I mention confidence? Anyway, honestly hope to hear from you at some point see what you think about the advice. Your hot friend that you want to sleep with. My honest advice about that? Don't try. You got a good friend. And if she's hot, just being seen with her in public automatically makes you more desirable. People always want what they can't have. If a woman sees you with a hot chick you must be a man that's worthy of a hot chick. She wants to know why that woman is with you and why she doesn't have you. And one day if it's meant to be, the two of you will have a moment when you know the time is right and the stars will align and things will happen. But my advice is to let them happen on her terms, if she decides that something should happen. You'll know she decides. Once again women want what they can't have. Once she sees you dating, and sees that chicks that you're dating are being satisfied by you, and that you're meeting their needs you become more desirable to her. You're your own man if. If you want to shoot your shot, f****** shoot it bro. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. But, If she's a good friend and you like her, let her take the initiative. Hope to hear from you sometime man. Happy hunting

Denzel_From_Flight · 2024-07-15T09:21:54+00:00

Don’t be desperate, or at least don’t come across that way. If you come across as a guy that’ll fuck anything that walks then you’re probably going to struggle, unless you look like a Greek god.

mllewisyolo · 2024-07-15T15:15:07+00:00

Google the Law of averages. Just keep putting yourself out there. Don’t be discouraged by rejections, just keep getting after it.

You won’t be able to keep them off you after enough reps

Miserable-Swing9275 · 2024-07-15T15:37:57+00:00

Lots of promiscuous girls your age. Put the phone down and make sure you get out and live life and touch grass. Be clean, smell good and dress decent and learn how to hold a conversation by bouncing off of whatever she is talking about. Make sure your social media accounts look good too, a horny lonely girl will fuck off social proof alone

nunsaymoo · 2024-07-15T08:49:08+00:00

Step 1: Find a girl who's honestly in your league.

Step 2: Earn her trust. This is perhaps the hardest step, but if you can figure out a way to make her at least friend zone you, that may suffice. Having a good/popular reputation is usually how it works, but you're probably a loser. So, be creative, I guess.

Step 3: Make her feel special. Seriously, you're going to have to make a real effort here. Make her feel like you understand her more than anyone else in the world does. In other words, give her "special snowflake syndrome."

Step 4: Go in for the kill.

These ARE steps, not just suggestions or guidelines. You must do them in order.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-07-15T12:31:39+00:00

Hit online dating hard, have a friend or hire a professional for a few bucks and get better pictures. Make it to the 2nd or third date and you’ll usually get laid if you have t given off the friend vibe too much. Don’t overthink, treat it like a social experiment

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-07-15T17:08:07+00:00

Your 19 you got time focus on getting a solid male group go to college Bruv why tf are you guys worried about getting laid you don’t need help with woman you need experience with woman , woman are going to come and go Bruv , go out find some friends that you count on when woman leave or get a hobby that you like get tf off this sub Reddit untill you do those things than go talk to 100 woman

PeachFantastic9169 · 2024-07-15T17:27:10+00:00

"After they saw they like me" ???? You mean after they saw that you like them?

snrolexx · 2024-07-15T17:27:24+00:00

You prolly come on too strong with the ladies. Once you get a girl at first and she says she likes you you gotta back off cuz otherwise they get too scared and think your desperate

Title	Getting laid
Author	Flip_Flop99_
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Date	July 15, 2024 4:15 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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