Many other guys here complain about having missed "indications of interest" with beautiful girls or not having responded in the correct way. I, on the other hand, wasn't even given the chance to mess up with a girl who already wanted me, because no girl has given me even the slightest bit of attention in the last two years.

With that being said, though, I am not currently particularly fit, well-groomed, well-dressed or socially popular. Do you have to be born with genetically good looks to get a lot of indications of interest from girls, or is there a chance that improving in these areas might get some girls to make the first move? Does anybody have personal experiences of getting more IOIs with improvement? I am not saying this as an excuse to avoid approaching as I know that the man making the first move is still the way to go most of the time, but it would just be very nice to get some attention and make the process a lot easier.

In addition, do you also need to be genetically gifted in order to have girls interested in casual encounters/one-night stands with you, considering none have ever expressed interest in that already, or does hard work also improve one's chances with this? I'm not saying I necessarily want this, I just want to know what my prospects are like.

Please answer as bluntly as possible. If the truth is that you really do need to be a natural-born Chad, that will come as no surprise to me.