My biggest struggle in approaching girls is the fact that I can never get them even remotely invested in a conversation with me, thereby forcing me to carry the whole thing and preventing me from "pulling away" and letting her talk, which apparently builds attraction. In other words, I can't fool the girl into thinking that there's actually something special about me and that her many other options can't completely replace me. Since I have no looks or social status to fall back on I really need to impress the girls with something interesting, and although I can have very interesting conversations once I've gotten into the flow of things, my conversation starts are lacklustre and uninspired. Does anybody have ideas of what I could say?