I'm not gonna put it all on display rn but here's the important back story.

I'm 22yo turning 23yo. My whole life I've had women friends, get on with them a hell of a lot better than I do blokes. And I've had 2 main situations.

First one was back a few years ago, got very close to her, defo had an opportunity however missed it due to my own stupidity, got overly attached, left it too late and fucked it up in the end.

Second one is most recently. Thought I could do the friendship thing, though mistake was that she's already engaged. Flirting all the time at work but I can't get involved whilst she has a fiancé. So now I've realised I'm in too deep and dropping off contact to get rid of those feelings.

What ive realised is I need to hit my hoe face and for the first time in almost 23 years, I'm ready to sleep around and fuck about. So the general question is how's the best way to go about it? There's 2 people I know who are good friends with the engagement situation described above, I know they're both into me and could take it further, but that's dangerous territory where they're good friends. Outside of that tbh I'm a bit of a loner, and never really been the clubbing/party type.

What advice would you guys give to getting out there? I've at a stage now where I genuienly don't give a fuck so my confidence is blooming, but also very inexperienced where I've never tried going for a relationship, let alone sleep around. Never kissed and never had a relationship so its all a bit new.