Getting stopped when things get physical, foreplay tips?

MarionberryAnnual657 · 2024-06-13T13:31:08+00:00

Maybe you're too agressive kissing her. Maybe she wants it very slowly paced. Most the time leading to sex you want to slow everything down, making it more sensual. You want to drag everything you do out. Kiss her slower, touch her slower, move across her slower (even escalate slower - kiss then instead of touch, kiss some more first) This is my favourite part bc you get the chance to drive her crazy and she can't do anything about it. I imagine it as if I'm now in slowmo and I'm taking in every little moment. Kind of like enjoying a michelin star meal I would never rush through that bc I want to know what each bite is like.

Anyway thats just my take on it and you might already know all this and if thats the case then idk what it might be but thought I'd share my 2 cents!

shroooomology · 2024-06-13T15:56:18+00:00

If you’re too forward it’s not attractive … us girls can sense the desperation & lust

Ordinary_Yam1866 · 2024-06-13T12:45:15+00:00

Probably try to initiate touch earlier on. If she is not physically comfortable with you, having the first prolonged touch to be you groping her everywhere, the outcome becomes easier to understand.

Happy-Control-7669 · 2024-06-13T13:21:43+00:00

Maybe Not congruent w the Rest of your actions. Like in her head Ur Not a fuckboy.

punktfan · 2024-06-14T00:56:55+00:00

Never touch a woman if she's feeling uncomfortable. That's the fastest way to turn her off and make her want to leave. Stay attuned to her comfort level, and if she's uncomfortable, always take a step back and slow down. It doesn't mean she doesn't want you, just that you're going a bit too fast for her and you need to slow down to match her pace. Honestly, your problem sounds like you've gotten comfortable and confident enough that you're just trying to move a little faster than you used to.

czfreak · 2024-06-14T01:19:39+00:00

Ime you just have to play it cool and go slow. Alot of girls will stop you when the panties are about to come off. This is because they need to know if they can trust you to stop if they tell you to. All you have to do is stop without any reaction (dont say anything or look butthurt) chill for a bit and start touching and kissing again and keep going through the motions until shes ready. If youve already made it that far they are definitely willing to fuck you

treffNix222 · 2024-06-14T07:07:38+00:00

First of all of u get that far offen, U are already doing a Lot of Things correctly. Id say, try to mirror her. If she goes slow and sensual (90% of women do it Like that), do the Same. Escalating ist Like a dance. Dont Rush it. Try to be in the Same rhythm as her. BE playful. Women hate lustful Guys. Try to Show her that u got ur Drive unser Control. Its really important But give her a glimpse every now and then about how horny U are. Kiss her with insane passion and then make Out 'normally' again. Give her a feel about Ur Power by Holding her with some intensity and then Go Back to being sensual. Push and pull, basically. By that u Show her what u want, but u dont try to force it. She decides the tempo.

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-14T20:29:37+00:00

What’s the last time you got laid? Be honest?

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-06-14T23:27:03+00:00

Some girls like it slow some don't. Maybe it's about something completely different. Id suggest just doing it a completely different way and study the results first if you can't figure out what's going on with your vibe or whatever.

For example, I like to turn women on slowly. I've found that they enjoy sex when you go slow at first, and get turned on better when you go slow at first with foreplay so why not everything else too. Lmao. Anyways.

If I'm trying to seduce a woman, I'll usually be cuddling with them in whatever way, and as I'm there I'll cuddle them innocently at first and then slowly, and casually if not obviously, move my hand closer and closer to resting on their boob or something.

During this if they seem uncomfortable I stop, but I've never had that happen yet. Id say they're most likely to move away from you, to a position that your hand is further away. If that happens just chill lmao and go for a kiss or something instead

Honestly I'd suggest having kissed them before any of this for anyone reading.

Anyways. There's more but this is long. Feel free to dm or ask any questions. But doing things slow I've had them escalate me, as they got too horny

rohit969 · 2024-06-15T00:47:40+00:00

Communicate during foreplay and take time to explore each other's bodies and ask her to guide you and you ask her for guidance as to what she loves. If you are a rookie then learn how to gently hold her neck and how to kiss her if that's a concerning topic for you.

Specific-Fudge-7222 · 2024-06-13T12:37:48+00:00

ask her what she likes

Title	Getting stopped when things get physical, foreplay tips?
Author	Acrobatic-Spinach436
Upvotes	14
Comments	19
Date	June 13, 2024 12:29 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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