Girl asks "is anyone else coming?" Continuation

Dilpil01 · 2018-12-25T16:58:15+00:00

You shouldn't have sent that text, it's like your openly admiting you pussy'd out - not attractive at all. If you don't escalate on a date, you need to take the frame that its because you're going slow and steady or because you're vetting her. I'd say admiting it has set you back. The fact you want to go on a second date shows intent enough.

I'd set up the shisha if you actually fancy going with a few mates and her but if that's not your plan I say move on to some others, there might still be a small chance she'll come back to you, but it's slim.

Foobyx · 2018-12-25T17:21:00+00:00

Personally i don't think shisha is a good date, for the reason the girl mentioned. If you really like it, no problem, otherwise, take one and get the fuck out of here once it's finished.

I think you will have a problem, cause she already won you, you declared you wanted to kiss her. Playing a game when you know you win 100% at the end is not especially exciting.

-Asher- · 2018-12-25T17:07:32+00:00

Just be upfront with her and tell her the god damned truth. "Hey, I'm interested in you and I wanted to spend time with just you."

Why are you complicating this. Whether she's interested or not, she'll let you know with her answer.

pilipinonguci11 · 2018-12-25T18:17:43+00:00

Agree with other commenter, don't send shit like that over text. I've done that before and it immediately kills any attraction that she has with me.

Seriously, just use texting for logistics

watersalad126 · 2018-12-25T18:00:42+00:00

My go to car move is wanna listen to music n smoke a blunt then I’ll be like the back seats are more comfortable n got more space but if you take her home don’t make it seem like you’re locking her in there

watersalad126 · 2018-12-25T17:32:45+00:00

I’d say feel out the vibe at the hookah bar and if everything’s going good invite her back to your place for some drinks or say you know a cool spot to go stargazing or sum (google or ask around for good spots and have a Bluetooth speaker or music source). If she doesn’t want to just say another time you don’t want to seem too eager

shadycthulu · 2018-12-25T18:58:40+00:00

Shisha is for multiple people and you creeped her tf out. Stop coming on so hard

Frya · 2018-12-25T23:24:30+00:00

Your friend is right about making sure she thinks you want her as a man, not as a friend.

But always try to avoid doing that over text, because it's cheap and easy. Express that in person, use text just to hold her interest and set up dates.

Seducing girls is about making them wet, but wet pussy over the phone means her masturbating, not you putting your dick inside.

Also be more commanding instead asking questions. Instead "are you down to go just you and me", go "I want you and me alone", and let the chips fall...

I think you are on a right track. It's great that you are thinking about pulling her to your place.

But make sure she's ready. I think shisha date is nice because you can talk. Bet your cards on expressing yourself without filter. Show her yourself, so she will get attracted quicker.

Pulling if she's cold is a bad move. If you feel she's wet, pull the trigger and take her home. If you can't tilt the conversation towards sexy stuff, it's all just blah blah small talk, then it won't go well.

Make sure she sees you expressing unapologetic desire to fuck her BEFORE you pull. So she knows what's up. Don't be a creep.

Pulling with using excuses like movies is good too. Ease her out.

Make her feel pretty, express your desire, make her wet. You have this dude.

watersalad126 · 2018-12-25T17:20:30+00:00

Just try your hardest to get some friends to come so she won’t think you’re just trying to fuck her. Maybe try to get her alone after if things go well after Sisha. Sometimes you gotta take things slow a lot of girls won’t put out after hanging with them once or twice. You sorta fucked up n seemed creepy by saying you shoulda kissed her. Slow your role bro n if she’s not feeling you after the sisha date cut her off

Title	Girl asks "is anyone else coming?" Continuation
Author	TheGreatTitanic
Upvotes	7
Comments	33
Date	December 25, 2018 4:48 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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