Give them your number without taking theirs. Waste less time.

NickJordan · 2013-02-17T06:05:45+00:00

nah, that's not how sexual dynamics work, at least from my observation of western culture. women are unlikely to initiate contact even if they are interested. they want you to take the initiative and lead the interaction.

you are the pursuer and remain the pursuer until you have sex, then the whole dynamic flips and she'll start texting you (assuming you aren't bad at sex).

eddkov · 2013-02-17T07:16:59+00:00

Thats not a good idea, when you give her your number your being passive, not confident, your saying 'I cant handle making decisions so instead I'm gonna go wait over here while you make up your mind on whether or not I'm good enough for you.' When you get her number, if she will flake then she will flake, nothing will change that, but if a girl is into you she will be waiting for the call or text and when it comes she will feel happy and joyful that her feeling are being returned and her wait and worry is over.

kingcal · 2013-02-17T07:50:09+00:00

Sure, you're confident she'll call you, but you're being passive and that's not an attractive quality in a man. Take the lead.

xxzulu24xx · 2013-02-18T02:25:09+00:00

Out of curiosity, how does your success rate compare to "traditional" phone game?

2013-02-18T04:32:05+00:00

This is not solid game by any stretch of the imagination.

You shouldn't be waiting for a girl to call you that's silly. If you have the time, you can seduce her entirely upon meeting her. Or you can get the number and eject, and continue to pursue later on.

Please don't accept this dudes advice, it's garbage.

Christafarian · 2013-02-17T07:48:04+00:00

and yet they do call

KilgoreTrouserTrout · 2013-02-17T16:55:31+00:00

I see your point about being confident she'll call. If this works for you, more power to you.

However, I see problems with this. When someone calls or texts me, I want to know who it is. I don't take calls from numbers I don't recognize.

My approach is almost the exact opposite of yours. I generally never give out my number to a girl. Instead, I make her come up with the idea that is is a good idea for her to give me her number. It makes them more invested in you.

But then, that's my style. I attract more than seduce. I make them think I'm so irresistable and charming that they just have to get to know me more, whether it seems like I'm into it or not. Perhaps you're more of a seducer. If it gets you the results you seek, then it ain't wrong.

Title	Give them your number without taking theirs. Waste less time.
Author	Christafarian
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	February 17, 2013 5:47 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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