Going to a party as a D D.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-09-01T06:00:41+00:00

Stop worrying about what people think. The aren't thinking about you. They're too busy worrying about what you think of them.

Lots of guys go out and don't drink. I do. In a bar, I usually just ask for ice water.

supersmileyface · 2013-09-01T05:15:32+00:00

Fuck what people think of you

ImKumarYo · 2013-09-01T05:21:23+00:00

Multiple of us in the Bay Area have been going out sober recently. It's not a problem at all. If anything girls are impressed that you're approaching and talking to them without liquid courage.

MomoElite · 2013-09-01T11:59:45+00:00

I never drink! All you have to do is believe that doing whatever you are doing is natural and everyone will believe it is natural. You can literally walk in public smoking a joint like it was a ciggerate, most people get paranoid as hell, but if you take it upon yourself that its natural, then no one is going to question you. And have fun, because basically that is what drunk people do, they are just able to achieve it way faster than a sober person can, at first I usually am like wtf am I doing with these out there/belligerent people, but after a while of trying to integrate I get on their level and it all becomes fun.

Edit: Besides its better to game women when you are sober because then you are gaining experience for your everyday life, not just nightlife

ex0th3rmic · 2013-09-01T05:38:27+00:00

"Hey looks like you need a safe ride home"

1vibe · 2013-09-01T11:31:38+00:00

As a non drinker, let me say they won't notice. And if they do, I just tell them I don't drink. But always have a glass of something in your hand.. Orange juice on the rocks, whatever.... Bring a bunch of ginger beer or something

psyocal · 2013-09-02T03:22:15+00:00

I don't want to give off the wrong impression as the guy who hits on drunk girls.

Are you the guy that hits on drunk girls? Don't be ashamed of what you are. I'm a pervert and I wear it proudly. Life isn't like the movies. If women know you have a wild side (which we all do but most try to repress), they'll only want you more.

If someone asks you why you're not drinking, have fun with it "It makes it easier to grab women, you're mine at the end of the night."

I've gone out while being completely sober and I had the opposite problem. I was so bored that I couldn't wait to leave the bar. I had a drunk girl (friend of a friend) curious as to why I wasn't drinking. I told her I just felt like taking a break. I told her how bored I was. She teased me a little bit. I was so genuinely disinterested in anyone and everyone at the bar that I decided to leave. 20 minutes later I received a text from an unknown number, "where are you?"

This is something I can't answer to this day, but it seems that each time I appear bored, I get approached by women. When I don't feel like going home with someone, I try and keep the conversation as platonic as possible. But women seem to like this side of me. Does anyone have a theory on this? (sorry for hijacking your thread)

Title	Going to a party as a D D.
Author	Wky
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	September 1, 2013 4:42 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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