Good grades and bad chicks

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-04-10T15:10:01+00:00

Break down exactly how you're spending your time. Actually take a good look at what you spend your time doing. Balancing school, health, and a social life isn't easy, but 95% of the time, it ain't exactly hard either.

Like think of all those times you spend watching Netflix or playing videogames or etc (assuming you do those things). Do something else instead.

Like I work a full-time job and I'm able to balance having a social life, exercising, trying out new hobbies, going to events, etc. It just means I don't waste as much time numbing my brain with Netflix or Minecraft or whatever. Unless you're spending like 80 hours a week studying and taking classes and working, you're really just making excuses for yourself.

Here's an example day:

7AM - wake up and shower
7:30AM - prepare breakfast
8AM - Go to work
8:45-ish to 12-ish - Work
12-ish to 1-ish - Gym
1-ish to 5-ish - Work
5-ish to 12AM - whatever the fuck I want to do

On weekends, I might do meal prep, chores, etc. But that takes like 2-6 hours max. I still have the entire weekend to do whatever the fuck I want or need to do.

And yo, you're a young dude and you still have a long life. Like even if you don't go to the bars for a week or two, it's not like you'll miss your chance forever. You'll just go out the week after.

Oftentimes, time management isn't an issue of having not enough time. It's more an issue of prioritization. As in, we're more willing to prioritize bad habits than we are willing to prioritize activities/hobbies/etc. that will serve us.

tl;dr really breakdown how your spending your time. Make a spreadsheet or something. Look for where you can trim the fat. And ask yourself, "am I committed to what I want? or am I committed to merely being comfortable?"

KawnN · 2015-04-10T12:19:51+00:00

stay in school library study and then go out pickup chicks

broeho · 2015-04-10T16:32:09+00:00

The honest truth is that you have plenty of time when you are in school.

It is just so unorganized that it seems like you are busier than you are. For example. One day you might have classes from 8AM until 1PM. The next day you have classes from Noon until 4. You might have breaks in between. You might go out and get drunk on a tuesday night with friends. You might go to bed at Midnight one night and 5AM the next night. You might nap for 3 hours one day.

Everything is disorganized.

If you can get yourself on some sort of a normal eating/sleeping schedule and stick to it, you can get so much more accomplished. It sounds like that's something you need to do... since your studies require a lot of time.

TheGoldenJ00 · 2015-04-10T20:26:50+00:00

Prioritize yourself knowing that chicks will always be there, and there will be many more of them if you got a badass job. Don't sacrifice your school for women. They will respect you/be attracted to you more so in the long run.

Dyablo66 · 2015-04-10T16:49:05+00:00

I get you exactly, I have the same "all in or nothing" personality. When exams are coming, I don't even think of going out, but then again I'm the typical jackass who will do nothing at all and then ingest the whole semester through the weekend before the exam and somehow get a good grade. If I wanted to connect the two I guess I'd study for a few hours right after school and then go out in the evening, it's all about time organization.

nerga · 2015-04-10T18:20:45+00:00

I work a full time job and go to school full time, but still somehow finds time to do some every week (almost). If you manage your time you are fine.

DaCaptain94 · 2015-04-10T18:30:31+00:00

Yeah if you want to do as well as you say at a school with a "school with one of the hardest engineering programs to get through" you're going to do a lot more than some after school studying.

BitingInsects · 2015-04-11T04:05:49+00:00

Pick two to focus on. Realistically.

Title	Good grades and bad chicks
Author	fatsug
Upvotes	13
Comments	15
Date	April 10, 2015 11:28 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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