Good seduction = manipulation ? Feedback from differents women

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-12-18T10:25:53+00:00

She feels like you're not honest and you tell her what she wants to hear too often, you sweet mouth

And your behavior doesn't always match what you tell her

rich_god · 2019-12-18T13:24:01+00:00

It's because you don't show vulnerability. Actually when you get better at game, when you're really confident and fully love yourself, people will get intimidated by you. They will think they're not enough, that you have all the girls you want, that they shouldn't be attached, that you have everything in your life so they can't bring something valuable to you... So you need to deconstruct that by showing that you're a normal human being with many flaws, self-doubt, that life is not as easy as it seems for you. You need to humanise that perception of you.

There is a game I love which is simply for you both to answer the question "What are you scared that I know about you ?" (you can do it multiple times or switch with other similar questions). Answering that question authentically and showing you deepest and truest self will create a strong connection with that person. That will create a special and unique moment between you.

Be genuine, be authentic, don't put a mask. If the girl says that about you it means she's already attracted, but she feels like there is something missing : the real you, the real human being hidden behind that persona of charisma and confidence. Show it to her.

Authenticity is one of the most attractive features.

WIA20XX · 2019-12-18T11:14:02+00:00

She has the right of it, you're probably too slick, so low comfort/trust.

Most guys throw in something that breaks rapport, or focus on broadcasting honest signals. Honest signals is easiest with talking to other people, and letting her see their honest reactions to you.

But.....

I usually parlay this comment into -

"You want me to pretend to be dumb? Do you want me to talk any wanting to motor boat them titties?"
And then I pull back out of genuine annoyance/offense.

They almost always chase much harder after that.

Title	Good seduction = manipulation ? Feedback from differents women
Author	macab5
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	December 18, 2019 10:11 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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