So, I usually get good number of matches and occasionally they convert to dates, which then lead to either me being friendzoned or the girl fading or ghosting me afterwards, even though, they say, they had a good time with me.

I looked into this subreddit and learned some techniques e.g. qualifier/disqualified and used it in the first message with a girl, that liked me first. I was immediately unmatched (quite funny but I was not really into the girl so does not matter)

Which led me to think, I'd never try these techniques on a girl that I'm super interested into, because I'm scared now? What should I do to not fall into friendzone guy or being ghosted?