Guys need help in analyzing the situation and what is up with this girl

So I like this girl met her at the gym asked her out she said yes let’s gooo…. we go out she tells me that she is looking for something casual which I am not and I tell her that, I am okay with going with the flow

She is from Spain and she doesn’t know if she will be here(Ireland) but she is trying to look for a job here trying her best.

We go on our first date and there I asked her if she wants to hold hands she says she would rather not and explains me that this is intimate and she would rather prevent herself from getting hurt also says had this been a hookup things would be different as no feelings attached and bye bye.

She tells me she would like to keep seeing me as she likes my company and enjoys being around me so I do tell her that I am not okay with a bit too invested dates and we can keep it lowkey.

We go on small coffee dates which turn to coffee workshops, yapping, coffee meets at her place and today I cooked for her she loved it then all of a sudden she says after eating that how pretty my room looks and enters the room which was full of sunlight I sit on my bed she comes and sits in the corner and asks how can she make it up to me she can cook for me or asks what do I want and the rolls on my bed and stuff I don’t do anything as I was in headspace that she can make a move.

What do you think is up here please help a fella out

EDIT 1 : Also her texts have been weird she literally goes like Hey Love and yaps about her day

Update : Remeber the Girl I told you about with whom I was hanging out and she was doing all the lovey dobey stuff rolled up in my bed and stuff I asked her to meetup and give me mate and by the end of the meetup before I stated anything she says to me that she wants us from stop seeing each other cause we are not on the same page

I told her I wanted to talk about the something similar that day you were rolled up in my bed I had an urge to kiss you like seriously but I couldn’t make myself as I didn’t know how you would react .

She says you told me no high investment dates but that was high investment she said (even thought she asked for it I just reciprocate) I say it is understandable and she left everything happend so fast that I could speak my mind out

I sent her voice messages about how I liked spending time with her and she did with me even though I had been going out with other people so I was thinking of coming up with TnC with the current situation and and casually dating accordingly and if not I will be stopping seeing her completely as what is happening is not normal and this is what she replied to that

Hey, thank you for letting me know.

But, to be honest, I don't want this to keep going any further.

I am actually seeing someone right now. I didn't tell you at the beggining because we weren't exclusive yet. But we are now. And I really want to make things right with him.

I was going to tell you but I was waiting to see if we could develop a friendship that was close enought.
But considering how things went, I believe we are not on the same page.

So I am taking a step back. For our own good. Because it's not fait. Not for you. For me. Neither for him.

I don't expect you to understand because I've been juggling a lot of mixed emotions these last weeks, but I would appreciate that you respect my boundaries.

PS: I was going out with other people and was having fun btw