Guys need your help

dark_galaxia · 2025-11-12T12:24:54+00:00

Try talking to her again, people’s moods change constantly.

Vegetable_Anty · 2025-11-12T12:46:52+00:00

She might just need time, don’t jump to conclusions.

hwillis891 · 2025-11-15T15:04:48+00:00

So, next time you interact with her ask for her number and get the vibe. If she isn’t feeling you MOVE ON.

Women aren’t as complicated as we make them out to be. Sure they love drama and overthinking everything, but at their core they are just like us and they know when a man wants to get with them.

She knows you like her bro. And the longer you spend needlessly pinning over a woman that may not even give a shit about you, the more desperate you are going to get and you’re going to act completely out of your character.

I see interactions with women like this. If you’re attracted, make a move. Ask for a number, flirt, ask out on a date. If she says no, move on to the next one. Eventually one will like what you’re selling as long as you are clean cut, smell good, in decent shape, and you can take care of yourself financially. If she rejects you, awesome. On to the next.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-11-12T13:08:59+00:00

Girls are easy to understand, it just takes decades to figure out which is why you have old men like me to help.

Any one girl you are talking to needs to feel like you can get hotter women than her, although they will never admit it, and many of them don't even consciously realize it because it's a safety mechanism written on their d.n.a.

The best course of action is to not devote your mental energy to one girl, because that screams to her that you can't do better. If the girl you like is ignoring you or being cold, yet can't help but smile, she might like you so she is definitely gauging how preselected you are through how you proceed.

All women pull back even if they like you, this is to test if you are congruent with the male dating strategy of having enough options to be able to choose who is best for you. All you have to do is pull back before they do by staying busy with other women.

AlastairXXL · 2025-11-12T12:39:41+00:00

She probably thought you didn't try very hard so stopped showing interest, more chat and ask her out next time bro

Positive-Manager8826 · 2025-11-12T13:19:23+00:00

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Comprehensive-War-34 · 2025-11-12T14:07:03+00:00

Why didn’t you get her number or contact info? She probably wanted you to ask her out? She probably took it as a rejection. I don’t know if you can fix this.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-11-12T15:50:51+00:00

dont chase find a group of friends ask her if she wants to join you guys simple as that

CompetitivePolicy532 · 2025-11-12T11:00:40+00:00

Talk to him again, again casually and depending on his reaction you could tell if he wants to continue talking or having interactions with you or not.

Title	Guys need your help
Author	Positive-Manager8826
Upvotes	5
Comments	20
Date	November 12, 2025 10:46 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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