Gym Game

Babayaga20000 · 2012-11-20T18:21:47+00:00

Dont game at the gym. Sure there are hot babes there but they are there to workout (usually). I dont hit on girls at the gym and I wouldn't want them hitting on me, at least not there.

When I go to the gym im there to focus on getting ripped. You should not think about anything other than what you are there for.

2012-11-20T18:56:31+00:00

No gym game. Use the gym if you see her elsewhere, like "hey you work out at Blah-Blah Fitness don't you? I'm skidmorez..."

fatless · 2012-11-20T17:11:28+00:00

The first advice is that you shouldn't be hung up on any one girl in particular, because now you've set yourself up to be outcome dependent on whether you succeed or not with this one girl. Don't do that.

The length of the conversation should last as long as it naturally should. If you don't know when it feels like a conversation is naturally ending with a girl you just approached, you should probably work on socializing in general to get a feel for typical body language cues that the other person is done talking to you. For example, they will typically turn their shoulders away/look away from you/step back/won't ask you any questions in return.

PrimeTime984 · 2012-11-20T18:44:01+00:00

I would go for a number/date close quickly. You're both there to work out, don't run standard comfort game until you're on a day 2 with her. Build attraction, find some commonalities, go for number/date - easy enough to do with "I'm in a bit of a rush, this iron doesn't pump its self, but I'd love to continue this conversation..." This may be in the first interaction, or the 2nd or 3rd time you speak to each other, as presumably gym interactions will be quite brief.

That being said, gym game is tough. Girls on cardio machines or on the weight room floor are not easily approached. Often they have their headphones in, and they're very self concious about guys staring at them while they're gross and sweaty.

A great place I've found is the classes. My gym offers free classes to its members, and if you go in and work hard in those classes, show that you're not there to creepily stare at girls, suddenly conversations become easy. You've got a common goal, and sometimes even a competitive/team environment that makes it easy to joke around with them. A line I like for one of my classes to open is (for girl in your area of the room) "Listen, there's one rule in this area... no showing me up! My ego can't handle it. I expect C efforts at best over here."

hands0me_man · 2012-11-21T07:12:39+00:00

Don't shit where you eat man. If you were gaming two girls at the same gym, they'd turn to you in an instant. Be careful.

Shademan_DS · 2012-11-21T07:23:54+00:00

If she's slightly walking on the treadmill in full makeup fine, she's there to get hit on. If she's really in to her workout do not approach her less you want to come off as a creeper. I just had a friend tell me yesterday tell me a guy tried to ask her out while she was working out and in her words: "I feel so uncomfortable cause it's the freaken gym".
If you catch her leaving sure you can say something then, but never during the workout

Title	Gym Game
Author	skidmorez
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	November 20, 2012 5:00 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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