I was dealing with oneitis for a bit (still am) and started dating other women. All of that crashed and burned literally within days.

One girl I've been casually hooking up with for months just ended it because she wants a serious relationship and I don't with her for various reasons.

Another girl who I had a great first date with and who was asking me about a second date, after our schedules weren't working (opposite work schedules) ghosted me.

Another girl (one a have a touch of oneitis for) that I hook up with occasionally, I asked out more formally and was shot down, and I they've been going on a lot of dates lately.

All of this happened within a few days of each other, and I'm starting to feel a bit discouraged. I know the first girl it's me who doesn't want the relationship but even that's discouraging me because I feel like I just don't click with her on a relationship level.