Help with Approach anxiety and fear?

FriendlyAdvisor-v2 · 2017-04-06T18:33:34+00:00

All it takes is 20 seconds. Count to 20 and realize you're going to do something completely insane. 20 seconds of courage is enough time to put your time to go up to a girl and say hello. Count to 20 and have those 20 seconds to have that blinding stupid courage and I promise something good will come out of it.

t1mman · 2017-04-06T19:55:08+00:00

Try turning the table around. Go not to prove you are worthy to her, but to see if she is interesting enough for you.

If you don’t have many social skills, you are trying to jump steps. I don’t know how old you are, nor is what you do for living, but having 0 friends not something good. Don’t expect to pick up chix magically if you’re not used to socializing the least. So I think you should focus on having a social circle, training yourself to have a conversation. The types of people that drives others away from them are usually the one that talks only about them, about what they achieved, with no interests to others around them. Some have good stories, but once they are told, you don’t hang out because you feel “worthless”.
The one that attracts people are usually the ones that gets people talking, opening to them. The one you feel safe around, that listens to you. So, if you only talk about yourself, try to find stories or what not, maybe try to turn the table around and ask people about them, and be genuinely interested in them.

omarcastillo360 · 2017-04-07T00:36:33+00:00

Send us a photograph of yourself or at least your outfit. It could make the difference. We can give you feedback on this.

tony18215 · 2017-04-06T20:54:17+00:00

I aint gonna lie to you bro.ALot of girls dont like short asian dudes.They want a guy who is tall most of the time and think asian guys have small d.so that combo you have isnt a good one.There are still some girls that wont mind at all.SO you should approach really short girls or purely asian girls .

Title	Help with Approach anxiety and fear?
Author	95555555555555555555
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Date	April 6, 2017 6:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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