Most men I know are sexually frustrated (unrequited crushes, no partner etc.). Can we account for the scope of this? Is it a problem for women too? edit: i called a female friend the other day who told me she'd never had a crush. just men hitting her up. she thought it was crazy that I'd had crushes. Different time, I called the same female friend. "hey! just talking to my friends about sex positions. what's up with you?" girls have these discussions?!? (i could never discuss sex positions with my male friends). so i'm trying to understand... how much sex people do people want? How about have? is everyone frustrated? How do demographics affect this (are college-educated more/less sexually active? what percentage of men are comfortable doing a cold approach? How about proposing a date? if low, how do they get their girlfriends? are the girls doing the escalating? Is an attractive single woman having sex once a week? In relationship, once a day? if most men lack game, does kissing generally happen at the girl's initiative on the third coffee date? what the hell is going on? thanks