I rarely ever post to Reddit. I usually just come on here to see what other people have posted and try to apply some of what other people have learned to my own life. I haven't come across anything on here that is close to what I am trying to figure out.

Long story short, my ability with girls is no where that I would like it to be.

I try to better myself in every way possible. I go to college so I can one day have a great job that I enjoy. I am very outgoing and very extroverted. I have plenty of good quality friends that I love to hangout with. I have a part time job that I actually do enjoy. I go to the gym almost every single day and I have been told countless times that I am in amazing shape.

With all of that said, I for some reason, have absolutely zero self confidence with the ladies. I went to the bar this previous weekend with a few of my buddies and I was in awe at how easily they could get some of these girls. It's like I go out of my way to avoid potentially awkward situations even though I'm not an awkward person.

Then again, last weekend, I asked a waitress for her number on Sunday and took her out on a date Wednesday. We had an absolute blast. Phones were kept away, talking, flirting, kissing, everything. Aside from that I've felt like I've been at rock bottom. It's like sometimes I feel truly self confident and things workout greatly, then other times my level of confidence is damn near nonexistent.

Please give me some solid guidance Reddit. I've had enough.