I (22 M) have noticed a weird issue in me, whenever I am texting/having a chat with a girl during our initial phases, irrespective of the social media platform. This issue is me, being too much,

1)excited

2) joyous (i use terms like lol, haha, lmao, and laughing emojis a lot), too

3) give too much explanations and long replies

I seriously feel I lack the basic 'game' of texting and doing the above things make the girl lose interest in talking to me.

Am I doing something wrong?

What should I do?