How can I increase my confidence

Alextryingforgrate · 2021-07-31T08:56:05+00:00

Go out to every grocery store near you and buy somethig simple and at the check out look at the cashir in the eyes and say hi and ask how their day is going. Do that 10 times a day and then when it gets too easy move on to something more challenging like asking for the pocation of an item in a grocery store and when that gets to easy do something else that's more challenging... just follow one rule never run away no matter how nervouse u get. Also remember it will take time just like getting in shap.

forfiveroses · 2021-07-31T12:59:48+00:00

work out. take care and improve of yourself. have at least one hobby you are enthusiastic about.

2021-07-31T06:22:36+00:00

It's different for everyone man. There's no definitive answer but just do things that are out of ur comfort zone. I'm still working on my confidence aswell, we all are one way or another

AelfredRex · 2021-07-31T11:15:49+00:00

Take what makes you feel strong and build on it. Recognize what makes you feel weak and minimize it. Find that music that makes you strut like you just don't care and make that your theme song.

PtheScoundrel · 2021-07-31T15:24:00+00:00

Get inside your own head first my guy, confidence is found with being completely comfortable with who you are. Once you find you, confidence comes naturally.

Ok_Influence_5342 · 2021-07-31T16:15:04+00:00

A lot of these suggestion are god awful, you can try to band aid the problem or you can tackle it properly. Get to the source and figure out why you have low self-esteem.

Only you truly know why that is, maybe you are unhappy with how you look, maybe you hate your job, maybe you want to go do something crazy in life but have been too afraid to do so. From what I've noticed low self-esteem stems from being unhappy with the person you are vs the person you want to be, in some are of your life you are not living up to your potential and you know it.

Leviathansplunge · 2021-07-31T06:37:34+00:00

Find your alcohol apex. Drunk enough to have liquid courage, but not so drunk you are keeling over and talking like Jabba.

Turbopre2 · 2021-07-31T14:05:17+00:00

Workout. You don't have to be jacked but just lose the flab on your belly and get nice toned arms and the girls will go crazy.

Alextryingforgrate · 2021-07-31T12:30:41+00:00

You want confidence? Go do something you haven’t done before, act like you belong. Therefore; fake it till you make it.

ethanashtonn · 2021-07-31T13:36:45+00:00

Confidence is the knowledge you have done something before and can do it again

ndzone69 · 2021-07-31T17:57:56+00:00

You'll think that my comment is too complicated to understand but confidence is not something you can increase. You have to EARN confidence by facing your fear and new challenges. I was once someone who had no confidence because I always had a scarcity mindset. Go do something that tickles you. I earned my confidence by moving to a new country, by working on my purpose ("Get your shit done/together"), by learning a new language (Spanish) and by wearing clothes that fit me well and make me look good. Also, go do some hard and heavy work out. This will increase your testosterone level and you'll automatically feel more confident. You see, you have too earn your confidence by doing hard and difficult tasks. Life ain't easy. Man up by leveling up

Title	How can I increase my confidence
Author	Alive-Doughnut2345
Upvotes	10
Comments	12
Date	July 31, 2021 6:12 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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