How can you improve your talking? I cant say things I want to say infront of girls , family , strangers?

theasianplayboy · 2024-10-09T20:09:25+00:00

To sound more attractive, masculine, and authoritative, start by controlling your breathing. Breathe deeply from your diaphragm to give your voice more depth and resonance. Slow down your speech to project confidence and prevent coming across as nervous or rushed. Lower your pitch slightly as deeper voices are generally perceived as more commanding and attractive. Use deliberate pauses to emphasize key points and show you are comfortable with silence.

For more tips on tonality, check out our video: Seduce Women Using Your Voice: How Tonality Affects Attraction https://youtu.be/wn2mHHiZQKU.

7asas · 2024-10-09T17:30:15+00:00

Find a job in sales or any job where you have to talk to a whole bunch of people all the time. Or... You could do 100 cold approaches. Both would solve the problem. You are speeding up because you are afraid people won't listen to you. These activities will improve your confidence, make you care less about any interaction and your problem will be solved.

epimpstyle · 2024-10-10T10:58:59+00:00

Relax, you are not special! Everyone speeds up their sentences when they're emotional and feel like people aren't listening to them. Next time, hold a bottle in your hand and try a little trick, say to the other person "By the way, I'm going to tell you something..." now instead of continuing, just drink from the bottle... continue the story, and drink again... you'll see that everyone is listening to you, they won't change the subject until you've finished what you wanted to say. Why won't they change the subject? Simply because it's not polite and it disrespects you, so relax, they will listen to you as long as you don't interrupt your speech too often because it gets boring, but you can try this experiment and see how it works.

From my point of view all you need is to spend more time with your friends, forget about masculine voice, authoritative voice, voice projection, deep voice and things like that, you are good as you are, nature created you that way, I don't know if you can change your voice but I know that a medical surgery is not worth it. Trying to change your voice when you speak is creepy, forget it, use your voice as it is.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-10-09T17:36:38+00:00

Do you feel any anxiety as you begin talking? Do you feel nervous or slightly scared?

Successful-Gift3453 · 2024-10-09T21:45:06+00:00

Speed slower, make your voice come from the chest, not throat.

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-10T07:18:54+00:00

Take care about corresponding body language. Take proper posture, pay attention to your breath, feelings, surroundings, slow down your talk a little bit so it won’t sound like you are running away from things you want to say, look other person in the eyes so it would be clear that you want to connect and pass a communicate for them.

bmcapers · 2024-10-09T18:24:36+00:00

I recommend participating in any social club your community may offer. And any program or job that helps you develop leadership and coordinating skills. It will build from there. I also recommend partaking in one on one instruction in anything, whether it’s through a private dance lesson, therapy, or DnD.

And it may sound unorthodox, but I think chatting with AI can help too.

Title	How can you improve your talking? I cant say things I want to say infront of girls , family , strangers?
Author	AdRight390
Upvotes	19
Comments	10
Date	October 9, 2024 5:04 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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