How do you develop charisma and confidence and remove social awkwardness so you can pull girls and be loved in social circle?

Boosteddreamer · 2024-07-14T22:53:20+00:00

Read “The charisma myth” by Olivia fox, it’ll explain it better then anything you’ll read on here.

Wean1eHu11 · 2024-07-14T22:57:17+00:00

The short answer is to create a lifestyle of fun and abundance for yourself so that you eliminate your neediness, but still have an interest in the people around you so as not to be self absorbed, thereby making you a fun and interesting person to be around.

Creating this lifestyle, or learning to fake it if that’s your preferred method, is dependent on multiple factors of what your lifestyle needs more or less of. Ultimately only you can figure out these factors, or pay someone to do it for you if that’s your preferred method.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-15T00:30:36+00:00

You become "the most interesting man" in any room you enter

Puzzleheaded-Life559 · 2024-07-15T01:06:01+00:00

Become an alcoholic

jamesfalken · 2024-07-15T02:20:40+00:00

If your issues are deep inner game related like this, you need to go do some real shit with your life and build character.

For starters, get off the internet (and don't stare at your phone all day).

Honestly, I'd start with seriously going to the gym. Put yourself through the personal hell (I say hell but it fun and rewarding) of building strength and muscle.

Start training some MMA discipline like BJJ, boxing or Muay Thai. Your going to meet other cool guys and get pushed and learn to fight through adversity.

Get out of your comfort zone. Sounds so simple and that could mean a million things. It could be striking up more random conversations, or solo traveling somewhere new and exploring unknown environments. You have to not fear stepping out of your comfort zone, embrace it.

Happypappy213 · 2024-07-15T01:41:09+00:00

By not making pulling women your main focus in life

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-07-14T23:05:14+00:00

With trial and error also ask and you shall receive , look for people who are doing what your doing , than find ways to practice , take a class , do a acting class , get a hobby with like minded people , focus on what you want extremely simple if your desperate enough to

appolonysian · 2024-07-15T02:26:02+00:00

The only way to get better is to do what you suck at. You’ll learn as you go so long as you reflect and adjust based on feedback, but at the end of the day, reading and asking for advice is only gonna get you so far.

_DTRK_ · 2024-07-15T03:02:47+00:00

You stop caring about pulling anyone. Originality is unique.

dobbs1997 · 2024-07-14T23:52:53+00:00

how would it change your life ?

zekeluden · 2024-07-15T01:34:22+00:00

Purpose

the_grizzygrant · 2024-07-15T04:15:50+00:00

A lot of confidence is believing in a vision, holding firm in that, and going with the flow. How you get there in the long term can be just sitting down and thinking about your super powers and truths. In the moment things like considering what can help shift moods positively, like smiling and making jokes and dancing without a care, or just wearing clothes you like can do it. For some people, it's being around people you know, like having a wingman, others it's places you know. But the biggest thing is just understanding and believe without a doubt that you are awesome and you can not be convinced otherwise or lend power to doubt, and that if something doesn't work out, it's not the end of the day.

lordesilverstein · 2024-07-15T04:46:54+00:00

One of the greatest things I was ever taught was to realize that wanting something feeds a void. To be complete in yourself destroys worry; worry creates the awkwardness and longing. To do that you have to look inward and work on yourself, filling that void. To not long is to feel full, complete and happy. People are attracted to happiness. They will want to be around you and find you charismatic and confident in yourself in that way.

bmcapers · 2024-07-15T07:00:03+00:00

Watch FD Signifier on YouTube. His videos are mostly about the black experience, especially as it relates to how a black person exists in a dominant white culture, but it helps structure how masculine frameworks are crafted and constructed, which ultimately reveals how much we’re lead as men to follow a path dictated by other men for those men’s benefit. It’s a complicated reality, but through this lens, it allows us to see the matrix that is layered on top of us and controlling us. Once we see this reality, we can negotiate accordingly and develop the charisma and confidence we seek. Otherwise, we’re so easily lead.

Example:

https://youtu.be/KaMvkCkgdmA?si=dM9Nx7pu2a0AOjjO

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-07-15T11:48:05+00:00

Cultivate a life with lots of socializing. Take risks and interact with alot of people, including attractive women. Combine this with sources that teach social skills such as books, videos, etc… take social risks so you can improve.

It’s just practice. Most people who ask about this aren’t taking action. They are staying the same because they aren’t stretching themselves and aren’t interacting with enough people.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-07-15T06:00:44+00:00

I learned it from how to win friends and influence people then went out in the world and talked to a lot of people.

My mother has real charisma she's loved everywhere she goes.

You have to talk to a lot of people.

Self hypnosis also helps to relax.

philosofrog32 · 2024-07-15T15:10:35+00:00

developing charisma and confidence takes time and practice. here are some tips:

body language: stand tall, make eye contact, and smile. confident body language can make a big difference.
active listening: show genuine interest in others. ask questions and listen to their responses.
practice: put yourself in social situations regularly. the more you practice, the more comfortable you'll become.
self-improvement: work on your hobbies and interests. being passionate about something makes you more interesting.
positive mindset: focus on your strengths and achievements. positive self-talk can boost your confidence.
humor: don't take yourself too seriously. a good sense of humor can make you more approachable.
feedback: ask trusted friends for feedback on your social interactions and work on areas of improvement.

and if you need more personalized advice, check out banterbot—it's pretty helpful with this kind of stuff. good luck!

MouseAware809 · 2024-07-17T21:52:23+00:00

Paul Mckenna I can make you charismatic. Practice the exercises and listen to the hypno.

There is no magic bullet.

Mindless-Lab-2639 · 2024-07-19T03:54:23+00:00

Things that helped me with this was therapy, quit porn and masterbation, workout, eat healthy, final remedy is do d2d for roofing that job made me who i am today, it forces you to be confident 24/7, it’s either homeowner sells you on they don’t need it or you sell them on why they need it

nunsaymoo · 2024-07-15T03:43:33+00:00

Fake it till you make it. If Donald Trump can say the stupidest shit with enough charisma to make others follow him, so can you.

How do you develop charisma and confidence and remove social awkwardness so you can pull girls and be loved in social circle?

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