How do I become more interesting?

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-05-31T20:32:07+00:00

It's not about the things you do superficially. You could be a skydiving enthusiast and still be dull.

It's about having genuine passions in your life. If you don't have some, experiment around and try out new things.

Usually, you aren't passionate about something and then try it out. You try it out, see if you like it, and then develop passion. So don't be afraid of trying out some shit! Have fun with it and play around.

johnnyboyfart · 2015-05-31T19:25:25+00:00

be more opinionated in a funny way

Hypervector · 2015-05-31T19:27:52+00:00

Elaborate? I refuse to believe that anyone is truly 100% boring ( even though there are some people who are very bad at presenting themselves, and who appear very dull on the outside).

Personally, I thought I used to think that I was a very boring guy, doing a boring degree, with boring interests. So much so, that I actually began projecting these feelings onto other people, and they thought I was boring too!

So here's a few things I want you to think about:

What do other people say about you, compliments?
What are your hobbies, skills, interests?
What unique experiences have you had?
Where have you been on holiday?
What do you think is special about yourself?

I used to think that I couldn't answer any of these questions, but then I realized that I actually do have answers, even if they're just one-line answers. In the end, it turned out that I had insecurity and self-esteem issues that were preventing me from seeing myself in a positive light, causing me to only think negatively.

So just try to answer those questions, and if you're still stumped, we'll try and figure out what's up.

polyfeux · 2015-05-31T21:04:01+00:00

As the other guys here already recommended: do something - everybody needs a hobby.

But there is more: as /u/IpickupGrandmothers has written, you need to be passionated. Especially when talking about it to a women, you need to learn to talk vividly and colorfully about it - that's how you catch the fish.

Tell here not only you were skydiving (to take the exampe from /u/IpickupGrandmothers), but tell her how awesome it was, how you could see the moutains far away, the birds flying beneath you. Tell her about the little details you maybe observed, so it doesn't look like you were jumping from one wow- to a next wow-situation.

fezzesarecool4768 · 2015-05-31T19:21:29+00:00

Get a hobby. Go hiking, join a rec league, do something. If you don't think you are interesting, figure out what you think is interesting and do that. Do you think cooking is interesting? Then join a cooking class. Always wanted to speak French? Take a French Class. Idolize Tom Brady? Join a Flag Football Rec League.

mkss89 · 2015-05-31T21:56:49+00:00

i'm not an expert but i advise you to read newspapers, so you know what's happening in the world, usually there are sections like world news, science, culture, that can make you seem more interesting and inteligent.

SavageAntelope · 2015-05-31T22:45:21+00:00

A brave sedditor once said: "If you think you are boring it's only because you are comparing yourself to other people's definition of what's exciting." But I also like to give practical advice, other than saying just be interested in everything. You can watch Tedx talks here. Try out martial arts like kickboxing (you never know how passionate you might be about fighting). And come up with random projects like learning different languages.

dylanmota18 · 2015-06-01T02:00:53+00:00

For me, I'm a huge Formula 1 fan, so people usually are intrigued by my analysis of the sport and stuff like that. Perhaps you can find something interesting like a show or something and introduce it to friends and girls

fantastic_damage · 2015-06-01T03:14:57+00:00

become present to the moment

TacticalBouncyCastle · 2015-05-31T19:37:12+00:00

Live.

WhiteBoythatCantJump · 2015-06-01T14:41:00+00:00

I looked at your post history - stop smoking weed. Nothing is more childish and unattractive to the right kind of woman.

Title	How do I become more interesting?
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Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	May 31, 2015 7:13 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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