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[–]smo0f 9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You come back from it by going out on another date with a different girl and not worry about this one. Learn from this date in regards to why it was just 'okay' and not 'great', and apply it to your future dates. If you happen to go out again with this girl, great. If not, great.
[–]Bana_9 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I had 'okay' date which turned out great on the second date. I had 'great' date where the girl didn't want to see me again afterwards. Just go for a second date and see how that one goes.
[–]insidescoop84 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this. I've had great 1st encounters with women that never materialize into anything, and what might be called mediocre encounters that become something major.
just remain confident in yourself and ask her out on a 2nd date if you're that much into seeing where things can go with her.
[–]jacks_not_surprised 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can I flirt with her through text?
exhales while grinning
I don't know, can you?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like you weren't even into her. Were you even into her? If you were not even feeling her, why even bother with a second date?
[–]IchTrinkeJager 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She was attractive and I only spent an hour with her over coffee. Idk. Aren't dates to get to know individuals?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"She was attractive."
Were you attracted to her though? I can say, "That girl is attractive", but have zero desire to pursue her. If I don't have the desire, nothing is going to happen no matter how "hot" she is. I just want to know how you felt about it. If "okay" is your answer, this doesn't seem worth it. Date people who make you look forward to seeing them. You're approaching this like some detached individual trying to play a "game".
I think one should know after a first date if there is going to be a second. You're waffling so I think this is already a lost cause unless you can find some confidence.
[–]IchTrinkeJager 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I can see where youre coming from. I already told her im taking her out on a 2nd date.. There's no harm in having fun, right? I honestly might just try to get laid with this one
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No harm. But go into the next date with a clear idea of what you want.
[–]DJVendetta 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How does a 1 hour coffee date escalate into anything other than going somewhere else afterwards or a hug/kiss & a goodbye?
[–]IchTrinkeJager 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. I never go in the first date planning on getting late. It's not a question about being "alpha-male" or whatever the fuck they call it, it's just personal prefeerence and I'm not really like that..
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Always be escalating. People build trust with touch. =) good luck~
[–]IchTrinkeJager 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is there an article or something on explaining how I could build escalation?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
search: Di Carlo Escalation Ladder
[–]DaygameCoach 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Call her and take her out again but ESCALATE her this time. If you don't kiss her on this one, you've friend zoned yourself. :)
[–]ultrasuperthrowaway -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go have relations with 10 other females then get back to me.
I have 3 that I'm in contact with at the moment.
[–]ultrasuperthrowaway -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Excellent!
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