How do I escalate when going out

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-02-23T01:42:03+00:00

Develop a pulling sequence. For example like me, I will bounce to a quiet place, build comfort for an hour and logistically probe for a pull. If the girl is unwilling to come with you, that's because you lack comfort. Take a look at my nightgame guide, it's written in sequential order.

CoachSlyDating · 2025-02-22T17:00:01+00:00

If you are consistently getting make outs then you can get girls to come home with you. You are about 80% of the way there. But the next step is where most struggle because it involves a lot of variables, and luck. Even for elite pickup artists, most targets are lost at this stage because of the luck.

You need to have chemistry with the girl. She must like you. If you get to a makeout let’s assume you have this.
You need to understand and solve the logistics. Is she with friends? If yes, then you need to win the friends over so they trust you and don’t cock block you. Is she in a two set or a three set?

If she’s in a two set she won’t want to leave her friend empty handed most likely. You need to figure out how to satisfy the friends needs. Put your wing on her, find another guy for her, or get her home safely.

If she is in a three set, your dynamics are better because the two friends can occupy each other.

The friends need to understand why she’s sleeping with you. You need to be cool and fun. In fact if you are REALLY cool, the friends will actually encourage her to go with you.

Winning over the friends gets you 90% of the way there. But you still need to solve the actual logistics of taking her to your place.

One approach is to pull the girl to a second venue, where you can vibe one on one. Ideally a dark little hole in the wall speakeasy. Then from there you escalate and suggest you go to your place for a non-sex reason. Don’t mention sex directly.You want to give her plausible deniability. “Let’s have a white claw and watch a youtube video at my place.”

You can also pull directly from the venue if you already know it’s on. Again you want to give her plausible deniability. You start seeding these ideas of doing something early on in the interaction without inviting her immediately. Make her earn the invitation.

Once you get good you will start to screen for favorable logistics earlier in the interaction. You don’t want to invest much of your limited time on someone with poor logistics. Get the number and move on.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-02-22T18:17:02+00:00

This is interesting. When I did my night game very often years ago whenever I did making out with a woman it’s like 99% of the time I took her home or went to her house. Way easier than trying to open and spark interests in her. So I wonder what you said to her or what you did that you just stopped at making out.

CharmingRejector · 2025-02-24T00:43:34+00:00

Quit making out a bit earlier. Tell her these wonderful words: "I'm hungry. Let's go for food!" Then take her straight home. "I can make wonderful Italian food for you!" (means frozen pizza obviously). You can ofc also make a pit-stop at some restaurant, up to you, but then get her to your place. Take a cab to shorten the time.

If you're already making out with her, stop before she gets satisfied. As you know, if the girl gets validated or satisfied, she'll just leave you. Instead, stop a bit before, grab her hand, and take her somewhere. Lead her.

Btw I once lead a girl who didn't want to go to my place, but she didn't want to tell me where she lived um so she nudged me whenever I went in the wrong direction and - wow, would you look at that, we just happened to walk right past my buidling... Wanna come inside for a cup o tea?" Yeah we never made tea... But the bedsheets soon got wet.

Now, she might have friends... If the friend checks up on you, and allows it, you're good. But if the girl says you need to avoid the friends, take a back-door and grab a cab.

Here's a fun tip: When you're leaving the club or venue, ask her to call her friends and lie to them that she got tired and went home early. Then say this to her: "You're such a naughty girl... I love naughty girls!" This makes the seduction go a lot easier, since only naughty girls go home with strangers for sex.

Title	How do I escalate when going out
Author	sompl2000
Upvotes	12
Comments	7
Date	February 22, 2025 4:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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