How do I even start?

smoothmax · 2019-10-25T14:47:00+00:00

Who do you live with in your house? First thing you do is talk to them. I don't care if you're an introvert ... even introverts can say, "How's it going" and then listen politely.

Do you have a family? When you're with them do the same thing.

Doesn't matter if you've been a social zero with these people until now. No woman will ever show a shred of interest in a guy who can't even talk like an adult to his roommates and family. You won't even be able to approach a woman and say "Excuse me" if you haven't become fairly sociable with the people in your life.

" ... Ive been taking in some of the information but never put it into action ... "

I like this sub but frankly it's no place for a beginner to learn anything useful, unless you track down the books etc. that people recommend and start learning methodically.

You're taking the semester off, do you have some money? Bootcamps or private instruction might be the way to go. If it's an experienced teacher they look at your situation and tailor their teaching to your needs.

Good luck ... you can do it!

OTG_yee · 2019-10-25T15:50:34+00:00

I would say the most important thing for you right now is to just go out. Get out of the house man, go to a coffee shop, park or restaurant.

Talk to people and get familiar with rejection. So the biggest thing is getting to a place where you realize how unimportant rejection is and that you can be the best fucking pancake you can be but not everyone is into pancakes.

Title	How do I even start?
Author	itzReborn
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	October 25, 2019 1:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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