How do i improve my game

2025-06-02T21:28:13+00:00

Take improv lessons/classes.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-06-02T20:07:00+00:00

It depends on if you're referring to online game or in person game. Totally different ball games. What works online probably won't work in person and vice versa.

Objective_Shallot879 · 2025-07-22T15:06:15+00:00

The goal is to not make it boring. Simple as that. Created tension by teasing her, exaggerating her statements, misreading her. Just make it playful and balance it with depth to create a deeper emotional question. Avoid the interview mode questions.

Not sure if you're into this, but I’m building a tool, still super early tho, that lets you record your date or cold approach (like a voice memo on your phone) and then gives you feedback on flirting, moments of high Interest, missed moments to escalate or tease. Although I'm in the game for a while now, it’s something I want to use to reflect and continue improving.

If you find this helpful too, hit me up and I’ll share it with you so you can give it a try.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-06-03T04:15:57+00:00

The reluctance of coming off as too forward or akward is the problem itself! Good flirting usually means that you're congruent and authenthic, so speak your mind freely and have no filters. See my post on the principles of flirting and verbal skills.

epimpstyle · 2025-06-02T19:20:29+00:00

You can learn through trial and error, but this will take a few months or even years. Alternatively, you can use routines/gambits and even props that will help you create a subject for talking if your mind goes blank or even help you escalate. The idea is that you need to be playful.

1- routine/gambits- is about telling interesting or funny stories that you will insert naturally into the conversation. For example: "Did you say you're from XYZ-city? No way! I have a friend who told a hilarious story about when he went there... [insert a funny story here]."

Another idea: "Do you see that guy/car/house over there? It reminds me of... [insert another funny/interesting story]." This is how you include a story in your conversation.

Other funny things (gambits) are shown in this VIDEO, VIDEO - these things won't appear out of nowhere, you need to see them and include them in your conversation.

2- Props - is about to have a bracelet /necklace, or even paint your pinky nail black. When a moment of silence appear, simply show her your bracelet/necklace and say, "See this? I bought it from XYZ... and... [insert a funny story here].' If another moment of silence appears, just extend your hand, point to your pinky, and tell her about your black nail. This will instantly spark a conversation about horror movies, music, vampires, rock, cosmetics....

You need to learn a few short, funny/interesting stories and then include them in the conversation - it is easy.

If you are looking for something "natural", "authentic", "genuine", then good luck! You will certainly need it.

Title	How do i improve my game
Author	Tough-Football9284
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	June 2, 2025 6:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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