How do I make the first move?

catfish_milk · 2021-11-07T00:20:34+00:00

You do. And your gf follows.

AelfredRex · 2021-11-07T02:01:02+00:00

A kiss usually kickstarts the action.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-11-07T01:13:49+00:00

Stuff? Like cleaning and cooking and painting the house?

2021-11-07T10:30:43+00:00

Say or do something that will make her laugh. Then while she's laughing apply light touches on her hand, shoulder, or leg. If she pulls away, then ease up, otherwise when you touch her, leave your hand there. She'll look at you and that's where you give her a nice compliment about how she looks or her shoes or something. That further breaks the ice, then move in closer and she will most likely reciprocate. The rest is history my man. Just always be kind and respectful and Never do more than she's comfortable with. Have fun.

EddieDildoHands · 2021-11-07T10:33:23+00:00

by offering her cocaine.

mystylejay · 2021-11-07T10:59:02+00:00

just remember that the first time you make sex with a girl can be "from terrible to mostly ok"

For the "amazing-terrific" range you have to get to next times. :D

2021-11-07T08:24:44+00:00

Put on a movie and slowly escalate sexually. If you're a virgin maybe just go down on each other the first time to get comfortable with eachother, take your time.

ProfessionalOne8518 · 2021-11-07T11:12:17+00:00

Go to your room or her place then have fun playing vid games or activity you like to do together even just eating fav food then get close to each other start by touching hands, hugging... try to be funny and natural while doing it

Far_Landscape2642 · 2021-11-07T14:04:54+00:00

There are just 2 moves... In and out, If u know what I mean, lol

harvey_croat · 2021-11-07T10:23:34+00:00

Just lead. You are the man. Do you have apartment to live?

andr386 · 2021-11-07T15:58:29+00:00

You could start by taking the weight off of both your shoulders.
Decide that you can both try, on any, date and that you don't have to go to the end (whatever either of you picture is the end ;-).

Even better, decide that you won't go till the end, whatever happens, for at least a few times. If it starts to work, then you will build a crazy sexual tension.

Now what do you do ? You build that tension. You can try anything you want.
Maybe try to flirt with innuendo, find ways to be playful in regular interactions. Anything where you both feel comfortable, both feel the attraction and you both feel safe and self confident.

Don't think about sex. Think about any kind of situation where you feel confident in your attraction and displaying it.

Sometimes when you've been friend for a while or have little experience, you might not have dared to share that you see the other person in a sexual way. Sometimes you wouldn't even admit to yourself. But you can find out safely and comfortably with your girlfriend. After all she choosed you, she wants to be with you, she's attracted to you and she's agreed to do "stuff together".

It's not a race. Maybe the way to get there is even more exciting.

The difficulties you have right now are pretty normal and do not make you less of a man. Don't be frightened by people who react differently or a simply jealous that you have that opportunity.

It's your relationship. You are in it. I hope you feel safe in it and you will continue to feel safe in it every step of the amazing way that awaits you.

great_account · 2021-11-07T18:01:04+00:00

Just kiss her. Nature will do the rest. Just remember, if she puts the breaks on, then slow down.

2021-11-08T05:00:23+00:00

JuST havE sEx iNceL

Title	How do I make the first move?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	18
Comments	18
Date	November 7, 2021 12:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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