How do I start?

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-04-19T00:41:41+00:00

Your case is pretty unique as you said you deal with women everyday. Maybe start from there.

I know a lot of stories of young virgin guys who want to step outside their comfort zone, but never with the “I deal with women everyday.” Use that to your advantage. I bet you have an interest in one or two of them.

Why do you need to go out to a club to approach a stranger where the opportunity is within your reach?

Realistic-Load-1302 · 2025-04-19T00:48:11+00:00

Cara me manda uma dm, quero te ajudar.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-19T07:11:23+00:00

See my post on how to learn pickup and follow the progression levels. It tells you exactly what to do step by step.

burncushlikewood · 2025-04-19T02:41:14+00:00

Great question, so firstly you should try and make some male friends, it's important to have a social circle and have male friends, it's good to have people who can help you out in life and help you meet new people or wingman for you! Now how do you start? I was a late bloomer, short and not very good looking, but I was always really smart, I finally hit puberty and got more muscle mass. I was talking to a friend and I told him I didn't know what to do with girls, he recommended me a website called fastseduction.com, this was my first taste of what we call "the manosphere". Anyways I soaked up the information, read everything on the site dozens of times, and started implementing some game while I was in high school. Man high school was absolutely nuts for me, crazy fun, we partied, did well in sports, and our school did really well academically. I hooked up with a few girls but I didn't consider my game to be good until I was a freshman in university. I read books (vin DiCarlo), I watched videos, I watched VH1s the pick up artist, I watched keys to vip, i watched gambler videos, and I started to go to night clubs and did a ton of approaches. I learned through experience what works and what doesn't, Im confident to approach and very charming, but I kind of built a reputation of being a player, which actually kinda hurt my chances with girls lol. Anyways read books, do approaches, keep a log and be persistent, it took me 4 years of studying female psychology till I started to understand what I needed to do to create a sexual relationship and get her to fall in love with me.

Title	How do I start?
Author	zezetsubou
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	April 19, 2025 12:21 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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