How do We get more bold with women?

recyclablebanthas · 2022-04-14T05:37:54+00:00

Socially we have been programmed to think of the idea of flirting with women as predatory behavior.....

Something men get short changed on as we grow up: We have to live up to such a narrow and demanding definition of "manhood."

Throughout the process of growing into men, we often end up graduating high school with little clue about how to navigate social situations to get laid or land a relationship.

Why is that? It's not magic.

The problem is that part of growing into a man involves discouraging development of certain social skills related to things like empathy. Which in turn is related to very important seduction skills like calibration: being able to read feedback from a girl and make adjustments.

Calibration is like steering a car or knowing when to brake at a stop light or before a turn. Escalation is hitting the gas.

Without calibration, the options are often going to be something like:

The friendzone if we take no action.
Running off the road and unintentionally freaking the girl out.

So, it's not a choice of simply making moves or not. It's making moves and paying attention to the feedback one is getting in their two-way interaction with the girl, so they know when to make adjustments.

2022-04-14T04:47:05+00:00

Get more bold with women that you've already been acquainted with and/or are showing clear signs of interest.

Cold-approaching barely ever ends in success and there's a good reason for that - complete strangers are the least likely people to connect.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-04-14T06:09:19+00:00

You just repeatedly do it until it becomes second nature, and when you notice you feel like hesitating, you remember that only dudes who escalate end up closing and you take the plunge.

kettlebell_workout · 2022-04-14T05:45:12+00:00

Seduction is about being bold without actually being direct verbally.

You need to use your body language, social status, intelligent and everything else, except directly telling a woman u like her.

Be that guy who lots of women wants, yet he is totally unaware about it.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-14T11:21:33+00:00

By realizing that flirting with women isn't predatory behaviour.

zughzz · 2022-04-14T04:33:53+00:00

What examples of flirting is socially seen as predatory?

Title	How do We get more bold with women?
Author	ShameAffectionate15
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	April 14, 2022 4:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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