How do you actually act natural/relax at dates?

hunterpua · 2019-12-12T19:04:38+00:00

Have experience.

Nothing feels natural when its new.

Just go on more dates and when you get familiar with how they go you'll be acting natural in no time.

Power-Dog · 2019-12-12T19:42:43+00:00

Coffee date. Be there first. Sit with your back to the door. Don’t drink your coffee, but keep it hot. Read a book. When she shows up, you’re thrown from reading to a social context and you get a jolt of caffeine. It’s sink or swim. So you just jump in the deep end: “so what’s up, tell me how it’s going.” No plan, just questions. Smile, say her name, eventually she shares a story and from that point you’re just golden

Marijuanomist · 2019-12-12T19:20:19+00:00

This basically has to do with inner game. That is, the way you view yourself, and the way you talk to yourself in your head. You've gotta get your mind right before you can convey believeable confidence to others.

2019-12-12T19:21:30+00:00

Just admit when you’re nervous and watch how much calmer you get. As men we feel like we need to be cool and confident at all times when all you need to do is make yourself appear a little vulnerable (I call it human) for things to work in your favor. Now you don’t have to do it verbally but a mental, “I’m nervous but it’s alright,” should do the trick.

Daveletsrave · 2019-12-12T19:32:48+00:00

Usually, what i do is be prepared, read through text etc.

Drink a beer or two to calm yourself down, don't drink coffee if cannot resist the caffeine

nagaisou · 2019-12-13T06:39:20+00:00

Fake it until you make it. Study the body language of confident people. And just imitate it, you will be surprised how it can slowly change you.

Title	How do you actually act natural/relax at dates?
Author	Power-Dog
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	December 12, 2019 6:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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