I recently met this hot girl, a HB9. The problem with this HB9 is, she knows shes a HB9. And guys relentlessly hit on her, she goes out with them, and she goes out with me. And had things stayed that way, in a game-state, it would have been much better. But it seems to have transcended into the next level. Let me explain.
I have fucked her. I have been asking her out, and she has been canceling on the other guys, for me, everytime I call. She say things like "Yes I do have alot of guys, but there is only you that I care about atm." And to a certain extent, I do think I have her hooked there, I am the superior species amongst the rest of guys. However, every other moment that I have not asked her out, she is out with other guys, whom she claims to be just friends, and that she hasn't done anything with them. I am not so sure about that. I'm pretty sure some of those guys have made their moves, and she prolly accepted as she is not one that pushes away guys that easily, but sex, maybe not, at least so she claims.
Now thing is, I'm leaving this beautiful country (Sweden) in a month time. And I'd love to spend the rest of my time having a beautiful summer fling. I get to have that. But what I can't live with is coming back from a date knowing that she prolly could be out with another guy now. The possessiveness within me does not allow that.
Yes, I can date other girls at the same time, and play the game where she does. The thing is, I am pretty sick of playing the game now. I can get most girls these days, and I am pretty sick of the superficial game. I'd love something deeper, even if a month is all I am left with.
I also am ready to leave this girl at this juncture, before I invest anymore.
But as fellow PUAs, what would you do in my position? Given that I am sick of juggling more (which I do anyways from time to time whenever I am bored enough). Should I just tell her that I am not comfortable with this open arrangement, even for just a month, or should I just say fuck it and fuck off?
Cheers guys :)
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