Long story short, I am currently living abroad. Although I can speak the language fluently, I can sometimes need some time to remember a word, and I have yet to catch all the subtleties of the language.

Meaning, I can't flirt very effectively and do innuendos. Plus, I am pretty sure when I struggle and/or stutter, it kills the whole fucking vibe and just fucks up my frame.

I absolutely hate this when I go dancing. The night is smooth, and we are making lots of eye contact and small talk. Then I fucking stutter or struggle to say something.

Please, spare me the bs and naive "omg it's okay, we all make errors, yepii." We all know how women view men after they lose their frame and value in their eyes, and I've seen it firsthand.

Only practical answers, only