So I'm actually pretty good at chatting up girls and whatnot, but have been in a relationship for over 9 years that is now faltering. She left me three months ago and I've been trying to be chill on the possibility that things could work out, but you know. Can't do that forever.

So even during our relationship I would talk to girls, etc. That's not a problem. But, being a good hubby it never went past that, so I have NO practice or experience past the "she likes me" phase.

I actually know a couple girls that are/have been interested in me, and one in particular is pretty flirty. All my friends, and even my ex, say she is ready to jump in bed with me. I've been holding back for a long time trying to be a good hubby, but as divorce looms being with this lady is no longer out of the picture (or some other lady down the road, who knows).

Thing is after nearly a decade out of the game I'm kinda lost. WTF do I do after the "she likes me" phase? Just jump in for a kiss? Tell her I'm interested and see how she takes it? Or what? Help a brother out.