How do you pull someone’s leg without sounding grumpy or whiny if they’re late to a date or forget something they were supposed to remember?

hunterpua · 2025-11-27T06:53:43+00:00

I don't do that passive aggressive BS.

If I give a shit about them being late then I give a shit. If it's not a big deal then it's not a big deal.

The real thing to work on is not being bothered by petty things.

The things I give a shit about are things like a business meeting, an event I organized with people and an essential member of that is late, or like if I'm on a trip with friends, we have some sort of experience scheduled and one person is taking way too long to get ready.

If it's something like just a first date, depending on how late she is I either don't react at all or I leave and probably sleep with one of my other FWBs or do something else fun.

There's two lessons there. First is don't stop at one.

The moment most guys even get a number, that girl becomes the center of their world for a few months.

The moment I get a number, the first thing I'm thinking about is finding another girl to approach.

I'm always flirting and escalating with multiple girls at once, so some of the girls I meet earlier become FWBs.

If you look at my comment history, I also talked about how to openly have multiple FWBs just two days ago.

The second lesson is to have a life. If you're already out, and you've at least somewhat kept up with stuff going on in your city, there will naturally be a lot of other things for you to do.

If you're too upset because she was so late you just left then see the first lesson.

If you don't stop at one and don't make her your whole world just because she gave you her number then you won't be upset at all just because some chick ran too late and you can easily have fun without her.

becomesharp · 2025-11-27T07:41:13+00:00

Are you trying to make them laugh to connect, or are you trying to dance around the idea that you dont like that she's late?

Viking-Warrior-2025 · 2025-11-27T05:52:38+00:00

It depends on the context. I'm a master that actually. I don't do it to shame but to be funny and it works.

Usually being funny requires taking a mundane situation and exaggerating it to extreme proportions.

I found that people who are late have that habit and if it's something that bothers you, you need to deal with it. Constantly nagging wont fix the problem.

FrogsAesthetics · 2025-11-27T08:11:45+00:00

Either ignore it, or play it cool and funny.

"I'm glad you made it. I was about to call the cops."

Title	How do you pull someone’s leg without sounding grumpy or whiny if they’re late to a date or forget something they were supposed to remember?
Author	Admirable_Cold7944
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	November 27, 2025 5:46 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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