How does this stuff fit into being introverted?

HotHamAndFrisco · 2015-11-24T21:10:56+00:00

That's not introversion. that is social anxiety. This will be self corrected over time should you follow the guidelines from the cold approach community.

Bbwwhite · 2015-11-24T23:02:48+00:00

I donno whether this is "introversion" or "social anxiety" (surely one of those). Even i was facing the same issue but now things has changed a bit for me. I started smokin pot and popped few pills of acid ( recreationally and i neither advice you) and the psychological thought process💭 has totally differed for me. Now if i something to say to anyone (👦 /👧) i just share my thought thinking its my feeling and there's no wrong in sharing it. But just think if that fits the situation and move on. If you are chatting with a random person, just be who you are coz they don't give a shit ( experienced), u ll become friends if your of the same type or sharing same fantasies.
Finally, its just a feeling that we introverts overthink things and stop ourselves from somethings happening. It can overcomed as simple as doing a meditation (Trust me).

unorthodoxintrovert · 2015-11-25T00:05:15+00:00

Introverted/socially anxious guys need to push it harder than any other person. You don't really know the extent of your introversion until you have spent 8 hours of your day talking to women 7 days a week. After you've pushed yourself to the extreme, you'll level out eventually and realize that you're not as introverted as you think. Personally, I've found I can sustain 3 hours of high social activity each day, then I need a while to recharge. That's me personally. I know guys who have just completely gotten over it, and some who realized they enjoy clubbing/partying/high social activities. What I'm saying is, you don't know how truly introverted/socially anxious you are until you've pushed yourself.

DaygameCoach · 2015-11-25T02:46:57+00:00

I know plenty of introverted people who are social and you wouldn't even know they are introverted. Game works fine for introverts. Anxiety...now that's a separate issue.

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2015-11-25T06:28:34+00:00

One of the biggest things you'll learn here is that to succeed and grow, you must push your comfort zone. Do things that scare you. You'll won't get far if you let yourself sit back because it's easier.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-11-25T15:12:37+00:00

Pickup isn't about becoming this cartoon character of what society thinks is a ladies man.

Pickup, to me, is about the ever-continuing process of self-improvement so that you can have great sex, healthy relationships, and awesome women in your life. How that shows up will be dependent on your personality, what you want out of life in general, etc.

So to actually answer your question, your introversion isn't a big deal. You will find women that will fit with your personality and lifestyle (assuming you practice healthy self-improvement and self-acceptance). I'm very introverted and I have good success in pickup because I find the women and relationships that work for me.

But since I'm introverted, a lot of times I'll go, "Ahhhhh I don't really care right now" lol, purely out of not wanting to be social.

However, this isn't introversion. You're using it as an excuse to avoid leaving your comfort zone. You're saying "ahh I don't really care" as a defense mechanism because you're afraid of what will happen if you talk to her. It's not not wanting be social. It's a desire to avoid potential discomfort.

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are many times where you're just not in the mood to socialize and I totally get that (again, I'm extremely introverted). However, you're still using introversion as an excuse.

Vocaloid99 · 2015-11-25T03:37:14+00:00

So I'm seeing a lot of confusing terms here. Introversion is not social anxiety. I'll define introversion as a preference, not inability, to abstain from social interactions.

There are times when I go to a woman and tell her what's on my mind. But there are times when I think about doing that and I stop because I don't have the energy to socialize or don't care. There is no anxiety in the way here.

Title	How does this stuff fit into being introverted?
Author	Vocaloid99
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	November 24, 2015 8:12 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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