Met a girl through an organization, never pursued her at first because I was focusing on other girls at the time but we became friends. 1 year later, she invites me to a party, I jokingly flirt with her, and she gives me the LJBF line. Ok, fine, wasn't expecting to date her anyway. Next

But then she invites me to hang out at her house. Good sign, but whatever, we're just friends, right? This becomes a consistent thing. Finally I pull the trigger and kiss her cuz why not. Fast forward to today, now we're essentially FWB.

What did I do right? 1. I brushed off the shit test by not getting all defensive or continuing to pursue her. 2. I made her enter my frame. When I changed from wanting friendship to wanting more, I held frame and she willingly entered my frame

TL;DR: Hold frame and have abundance mentality, any the world is yours