How much more difficult is getting lays without alcohol being involved

hunterpua · 2020-09-04T20:13:48+00:00

I found that the alcohol per se is not what helps set the mood, its the excuse that the alcohol gives women to act a little more naughty that does it.

So even a "Mock-tail" that seems like it has alcohol in it but in reality doesn't have a single drop is enough to help set that mood.

That said, you don't really wanna be using alcohol or drinks that look like they have alcohol to help turn things sexual because people are a lot more sensitive about consent these days so you don't wanna put it in the girl's mind that she may not have had full access to her mental faculties when she decided to have sex with you.

You want it to be clear that the girl is not being influenced by anything other than her desire for you.

And really, alcohol is not that big of a help anyway. When you know how to escalate things in way that maintains her comfort while turning her on and making her want you at the same time, she'll have sex with you.

When I got good at this I was having a lot of sex in the afternoon. The most important thing really is just getting a girl horny.

quinnmcd · 2020-09-04T19:27:47+00:00

Alcohol can make it easier, but no alcohol doesn't make it harder. If she wants to sleep with you then she won't make it hard.

relying on alcohol does hurt your game though. Alcohol makes it easier to escalate and relax, but they are important skills to know how to do sober. I used to overthink escalating and used alcohol as a crutch to get laid. My friends gave me the advice to put her hand on my D**** or just whip it out (after she's already showed interest and accepting an invitation to my place of course). You shouldn't need alcohol to get physical with women or to convince her to want to sleep with you.

get the mood right by playing some music, sit close to her, and smiling/flirting with her. Girls aren't dumb when they go to your bedroom that already know your intentions.

norwegiandoggo · 2020-09-04T19:44:27+00:00

Well first off, if she gets a little drunk you can't do anything sexual with her as the risk of a false rape accusation due to complete memory loss is just too high. Having sex drunk also ads feelings of regret for her so there's also that.

Keep it sober bro.. it's easy. Speaking from personal experience most girls prefer a sober guy over a drunk guy any day of the week. No bad breath, no loss of self control, socially intelligent, generally intelligent, healthier and look better. Harder boners. So many pros.

pua_max · 2020-09-04T19:26:48+00:00

I never drink alcohol even when I go to clubs. Works fine.

johnny-faux · 2020-09-04T20:23:34+00:00

Its super easy, and I am in a frat so the pressure is forsure there. Girls will like you with or without the alchohol. Sometimes people are just more honestly themselves once liquor is in their system. Thats what girls are falling in love with. They dont care if ur drunk or not

bufnifyvjffyvjifyvh · 2020-09-04T19:51:45+00:00

Drinking revolves around looks, the hotter you are the less liquor she needs to go fuck you. If you’re on the averageish side then she’ll get a few more drinks to “not remember it” she’s mainly just wanting dick.

Title	How much more difficult is getting lays without alcohol being involved
Author	YouAlright_Boah
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Date	September 4, 2020 6:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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