I am trying to set up a sustainable schedule combining work, sports and social events, particularly dates. So far my schedule is such that I can start dates after dinner, around 7:30pm-8pm. However I also start work at 8am. If I wake up one hour before and aim for eight hours of sleep, I have to go to bed at 11pm, leaving 3 or 3,5 hours of date.

In my experience, this has often been insufficient when the girl is coming to my place at the end of the first date. It is not a problem for dates other than first if she comes directly to my place, but combining bar and Netflix at my place to warm up with sex takes some time. Last time this happened, she left at 2am lol. But we had taken 3 full hours at the bar before moving to my place. So I might just be too slow...

Thereby I am asking to you sedditors: 1) When do you guys start your first dates and when do they usually finish when sex happens? 2) How much time do you take before inviting her to your place? 3) How much time do you spend at your place before making out? 4) How much time do you spend between making out and her leaving your place?